Breaktime

Mga Bagay na Mahirap Ipaliwanag

2012-02-13T05:54:00.000-08:00

1. Kung bakit walang bibig si Pringles at mas marami ang bigote niya kaysa buhok.
2. Kung bakit may nalaglag na kanin sa sahig, pero nawala nung pupulutin mo na. Kaya ba ito tinawag na "mumu"?
3. Kung bakit hindi dumating ang basurero kahit schedule nila ngayon.
4. Kung bakit tinawag ni Senate President Enrile na "gentle lady" si Sen. Miriam Santiago, when she is in fact, cruel. Hehe!

Organizing Small Things

2012-02-11T18:41:00.000-08:00

Having these little helpers allows you to:
1. Find earrings quickly and keep track of the ones you seldom use
2. Keep your lipsticks, eye shadow, blush, and hair clips orderly
3. Decide which hand accessories to wear today...at just one glance.

Kodigo

2012-01-14T04:32:00.000-08:00

Isang hapon sa library kasama ng mga kaklase, nagkagulatan nang maalalang magpapa-quiz pala ang prof bilang panimula ng balik-aral ngayong 2012. Kaya napag-usapan ang wild ideas sa pangongodigo na 'di pa namin napangahasang gawin. Narito ang ilang suhestiyon:

1. The Lucky Bracelet - Gupitin ang piraso ng hand-out na may keywords. I-roll nang mabuti para mapaikot sa wrist.
2. The Ring - Smaller version of the above. Ingat lang at baka mabati ni sir: "What a nice ring you have!"
3. The Custom-Designed Shoe - Puwedeng codes, drawings, at iba pang doodles sa suot na sapatos
4. The Mysterious Hanky - Kunwari malala na ang pagbahing at maya't mayang sisilipin kung may kasama nang dugo. Iyon pala, may binabasa lang.
5. Salamin, salamin, sabihin sa akin - Puwede ring sa eyeglasses mo o ng kaklase isulat ang mga sagot
6. As Lovely As A Tree - Umupo sa may bintana kung saan tanaw ang punong pinagpaskilan ng kodigo. Manalanging huwag humangin nang malakas. Dahil kung sakali, tiyak na "may I go out" at sa CR na ang tuloy para sa desperate measures.
7. Bending Exercise - Isingit sa laylayan ng pantalon. Kunwari may makati, para kamot ka nang kamot at silip ka rin nang silip.
8. On The Edge - Puwedeng magsingit ng keywords sa mga agwat ng mesa.
9. The Law-Abiding Citizen - Magtataka ka dahil siya lang ang naka-ID lace. May nakasulat pala sa gilid-gilid.

Pero mag-ingat din sa mga modus ng prof, gaya ng kunwaring pagbabasa ng dyaryo habang exam n'yo. I-check at baka may butas sa gitna. Ang review tip lang namin, gumawa ng mnemonics. Halimbawa, puwede ang "IMPAN" para sa levels of skill: Imitation, Manipulation, Precision, Articulation, and Naturalisation. Kaso nga lang, malaki ang tsansang hindi enumeration ang test ni sir. At baka pagkamalan ka pang adik kapag narinig ng barkada. At kaysa gumawa ng kodigo (effort pa talaga!), gamitin na lang ang oras sa pag-aaral!

Ngayon naman, kina ma'am at sir ang pokus. Paano nga ba sila nanghuhuli?

1. Sasabihin ni sir: Class, I'll just go to the restroom. Mamaya, nakasilip pala sa butas ng pader.
2. Steady lang si prof, nakatitig at 'di nagbabago angposisyon. Tapos biglang ngingisi. Katakot!

3. Lalabas siya at biglang papasok ang janitor para magwaliso magpunas ng bintana. Kasabwat pala!

4. CCTV at iba pang maliliit na gadgets na pwede ikabit sarelo o kuwelyo para sa surveillance

5. Pagpapanggap na bumabasa siya ng palad, pero ichi-checklang pala kung may formula sa pagitan ng mga daliri

6. Paghingi ng tissue mula sa roll na dala mo, para i-checkdin kung may formula sa likod

7. Paglapit sa mga nagrereview ng mga sagot, para sitahinkung bakit ang taas ng pagkakahawak nila sa papel. Parang sadyang pinapasilip!

Basta 'pag mahuhuli ka na, lunukan na ng kodigo! Hahaha

The Temporariness of Things

2011-12-31T03:04:00.000-08:00

Realizing the truth in the statement that we are only transient beings and that we cannot hold on to anything too tightly, I resolved to look back at 2011 with gratitude. The temporariness of things do not make them less valuable.

This year, I went on to take the remaining courses in our MA program. I am still happily treading the path as a student. Despite a career shift from TV to web, the big picture - that logical piece of excelling in the practice of communication - is still vivid in my head. Everything seemed to fall into place. Perfect scheduling.

In 2011, I enjoyed our class productions. My partner and I were able to come up with our ethnographic documentary on urban living, focusing on the dynamics of waiting. Together with our classmates, we were given the opportunity to show the final output to the public.

In March 2011, I took a trip to New Delhi for the India-ASEAN Business Fair and Conclave and the Delhi Dialogue. The experience had been educational, challenging, and enriching also in the sense of establishing friendships.

Locally, I also traveled a lot through our lifestyle program at PTV. Bohol, Dinagat Islands, Nueva Ecija, and Isabela served as our generous hosts.

Family life remains to be a happy one, with weekend activities, occasional weekday adventures, and the simple warmth of being together. I wouldn't trade this inspiration for anything else.

Love also taught its deepest lessons this year, with the ultimate concept of sacrifice, giving, and expanding yourself toward unfamiliar territories. For everyone, this passage remains something to ponder on: "Love is patient. Love is kind. It is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up." (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

People come and go, but friends don't. No matter how fast time passes by, how experiences overwhelm us, true friends remain. And this is another thing I'm thankful for as I welcome 2012.

Happy new year!

Things to Consider in Finding Your New Job

2011-12-22T18:37:00.000-08:00

1. Commute: Duration, safety, transport cost
2. Physical work environment: Lay-out, comfort, lighting, temperature
3. Attitudes, facial expressions, and aura of current employees
4. Cost of living in the location: Dining places, material temptations in the locale (presence of malls, bars, bazaars!)
5. Stability and organizational performance
6. Will the job help in building your resume? Will the training add new elements to your skills set?
7. Compensation package and benefits
8. Is the company employee-oriented? You can gauge this through the working hours, facilities, wellness programmes, employee engagement initiatives, and other features

Hindi Madali ang Maging Mascot

2011-12-09T22:29:00.001-08:00

Mahirapang buhay ng isang mascot. Naghihintay lang siya ng go signal. Mahirap namangmag-volunteer: Isusuot ko na ba?

Sasobrang init, baka siya himatayin.

Peroalam n’yo bang ang pagsusuot ng mascot ay mabisang paraan upang makatakas sabilibid? O ‘di naman kaya, kapag ibinaba ka ng sasakyan sa toll gate, sa bahagikung saan bawal ang tao. Kaysa magpagulong-gulong sa damuhan, mag-mascot nalang.

Samantala,not all mascots are created equal. Mas kumplikado isuot ang iba. Pero simple nasiguro ang mascot ng LWUA: Ga-patak lang! Pero mabigat pa rin.

Si Fluffy, Talking Bird Na Boses Tao

2011-12-03T23:06:00.001-08:00

Itatago natin sa pangalang Vivian Yjares ang may-ari ng ibong si Fluffy.

Inirereklamo niya ang alaga na kapag nagugutom ay nagsasabing "Taopo!" Automatic kasing tatakbo ang nag-aalaga para i-check kung sino ang akalang bisita. Minsan naman, sobrang aga niya mag-"tao po" kaya sabi ng asawa ni ate Vivian, "Kakainis naman si Fluffy! Natutulog pa ang tao e."

At may isa pa siyang trip: Ang panggagaya ng mga dumaraang nagtitinda: "Gulay!" At kapag may bisita, "Pangit!Pangit!"

May tatlong boses si Fluffy - Lalake, babae, at bading. Kaya rin niyang humalakhak na mala-November 1. Pero bibo man sa malalapit sa kanya, kapag may dumayo dahil gustong makarinig, 'di na nagsasalita ang ibon! Sa sobrang tahimik, akalamo, ang bait bait.

Minsan, may mga poging bumisita. Pasikat si Fluffy! Sobrang daldal at mukhang nagpapapansin o nagpapa-cute. Bakit daw kaya kapag babae, 'di niya type at nagiging pipi o dedma? (Baka kung ako ang bibisita, mag-play dead pa siya.)

Minsan tuloy, naisip ni ate Viv na ibenta na lang si Fluffy. Kaso, sinabihan nito ng "pangit" ang gusto sanang bumili.

Sadyang malambing si Fluffy na parang tunay na anak na rin ni ate Viv. Kapag ang isa sa magkakapatid ay tumawag ng "mama," sasabihin ni kuya Ronald na "tawag ka ng anak mo." Sasabihin naman ni Fluffy, "papa!" Kaya sasabihin naman ni ate Viv, "Tawag ka rin!"

Gustoko ba raw i-overnight si Fluffy? Okay na sana kaso malaman-laman ko, dog food ang kinakain! Hinihintay na nga lang daw nilang kumahol.

The Genetic Cross

2011-12-02T18:46:00.001-08:00

It was only until recently that I realized how my feet automatically assume this position where I feel the most relaxed, comfortable, and peaceful - sort of a neutral form. A bit disturbed about the recurrence, I told my dad about it and he admitted constantly doing the same. But whether left over right or right over left is better, is still a mystery.

So when I am reviewing for an exam, attending my classes, hearing Mass, writing at the office, or talking to my boss, you'll find my feet doing the genetic cross. Lately I tried fighting it to no avail. I just feel uneasy and irritable. Hihihi.

NBI Clearance

2011-11-28T17:00:00.000-08:00

Thereare many things about securing a clearance which are not clear to me.

Same place (Quezon City Satellite Office). Year 2008. I last got my NBI clearance. Same number of people in queue, and waiting that seems to take forever. The only difference: No need for dirty fingers, thanks to the digital fingerprinting system. But be it renewal or new application, one has to go through the entire process.
With a line this long, one might just lose his temper and decide to commit a crime.
The man says on the mega phone: “Yung pipila agad sa picture without data encoding, di ‘yan tatalab!”
Ang sarap siguro magtrabaho sa likod ng window. Naka-aircon habang humaharap sa mga nanlilimahid na aplikante. Ano kaya kung nag-ring ang telepono… “Hello mare! Kamusta na?”
Hindi mawawala ang mga sumisingit. Ang solusyon: Barikada. At may nakilala pa 'kong nambintang na ako raw ang sumingit dahil nanigarilyo lang siya sandali. Aba'y akalain mo...
Kailangan bang ngumiti sa picture-taking? Kapag ba gumawa ka ng krimen, sasabihin ng nakahuli “Ikaw ba ‘to? Ngiti ka nga!” Pero siyempre sa tagal nang ipinila, mga pilit na ang ngiti sa last step na ito ng proseso. Bakit kasi hindi unahin para fresh pa ang mga nakapila? O ‘yung isa, ngumunguya pa habang nagpapa-picture! Mas mabuti na ‘yan kaysa kung may sakit na kusang kumukurap-kurap ang mata. Mahirap tiyempuhan.
Releasing? Baka siya namang confinement mo sa ospital dahil nahimatay na sa pagod. 8:00 am – 3:00 pm ba naman akong nakatayo nang walang pagkain. Buti na lang may tubig at mabuting hindi umulan pagkaraang mabilad sa araw.
May lalakeng nahuli ng dating. Wala na raw number na ipinamimigay kaya pinabalik kinabukasan. Pero nung babaeng maayos-ayos ang lumapit, magbibigay raw maya-maya lang. Dapat pala i-try nung lalakeng mag-wig muna at bumalik.

Angmaipapayo ko lang, ipakuwadro ang NBI. Dahil pinaghirapan mo iyan at nagbuwis ka ng dugo’tpawis. Idagdag pa angPhp 115 na bayad mapa-local o abroad man ang purpose sa pagkuha ng clearance. Huwagkalimutang magdala ng valid ID.

The Media-Savvy Cat

2011-11-25T07:50:00.001-08:00

Found beside the security desk around 8:00 pm at the College of Mass Communication. It even looked at the camera! ^_^

Taking Risks

2011-11-25T05:45:00.000-08:00

TodayI did something life changing: Finally telling my boss that I am leaving thenetwork.

Havingwritten my resignation letter about a month ago, I have only come to thedecision of walking to her office yesterday. And thankfully, I walked out ofthat room knowing that she understood, wished me well, and cared for my future.

Sheis the type of boss who believed I can deliver at all times. She trusted mewith a number of responsibilities, a lot of which I felt challenging and new.My three years in PTV have been worthwhile. Despite the tough times, I remainedhopeful that eventually, things would turn out fine. I embraced new projects,coped with limitations, and felt fulfilled after each day. Hours have beenproductive.

Injob interviews, it is obvious that I had a great time in the network and that Iowe so much from them. Voiceover tapes, sequence guides, scripts, EFP, thestudio,… Ate Regine, Nin, Alaine, Bryan, Daivin, Ate Malou, Kuya Ernie, AteVivian, Raine, Kuya Richard, Direk Bebbs… They will all be missed.

Myletter of resignation was short, and any reason for leaving’s not stated. Iintended so because I did not want people attributing my decision to any singlereason. I just have to risk going far to find out how far I can go. This is theright time for such risk. Three years is just enough – to enrich my mediapractice, to strengthen friendships, and to give time for a firm decision.

The Scarecrow-Snowman

2011-11-22T01:29:00.001-08:00

Identity crisis: We found this decor at the studio set of The Morning Show. Can't scare kids away... Could it be Frosty's relative? Anyhow, people had it removed after the Halloween season.

Mga Kagila-Gilalas na Kapalpakan sa Events

2011-11-17T16:30:00.001-08:00

1. Kung kailan nanonood, saka magsusukat ng projection. At imbes na lights off, lalong lumiliwanag dahil mali ang mga switches na pinipindot.
2. "Chance for photo op." Opportunity na nga, chance pa!
3. Nawalang music habang may tumatanggap ng plake.
4. AVP na may mahabang mensahe, pero umattend din pala at pwedeng live na magsalita yung tao.
5. Manila paper ng lyrics na lumalakad kasabay ng singer. Ay, nabangga. Napunit tuloy!
6. Inspirational message na 'di nakaka-inspire. Marami nang naghihikab.
7. Closing remarks na parang dapat ay inassign sa opening.
8. Kinulang sa inensayong kanta kaya umuulit na ang live singers.
9. Mictest habang may nagsasalita. Paulit-ulit pa! Mas malala: Nag-fade up pa ngmusic.

10. Malakingboard na natumba habang may press interview.

Murphy's Law

2011-11-15T16:18:00.000-08:00

My dad introduced me to an e-mail that enumerated several versions of Murphy's Law: If anything can go wrong, it will. My favorites are:

1. Law of the Bath: When the body is fully immersed in water, the telephone rings.
2. Coffee Law: As soon as you sit down to a cup of hot coffee, your boss will ask you to do something which will last until the coffee is cold.
3. Law of Bio-mechanics: The severity of the itch is inversely proportional to the reach.

And so today, I found myself formulating my own sayings:

1. Law of Mechanical Repair: The probability of destruction is proportional to the desire to repair.
2. Law of Rest: The probability of sleeping increases when it's time to stay awake.
3. Law of Property: Just when you decided to purchase a very expensive gadget, you encounter the robbers.
4. Law of Finances: The probability of getting paid is inversely proportional to the intensity of the promising at the time the debt was made.
5. The chances that it will rain increases when you forget to bring your umbrella. Or raincoat. Or boots.
6. Law of Management: The chances of getting concrete results is inversely proportional to the number of meetings held.
7. The more you hide from your boss, the greater chances of being called to his or her office.

Sumptuous Dinner at Cyma

2011-11-09T16:30:00.000-08:00

Glimpses of Marrian's 25th birthday celebration at Cyma, Trinoma, Quezon City. A very meaningful and enjoyable night with Cristine Kuzhuppilly, Raphael Funa, Shayne Jamito, Russ Aragones, Ron Bautista, and JP Alonzo. (With the unforgettable order of the gigantic salad called "yung ganon" Haha!) November 6, 2011

Undas 2011

2011-11-08T19:24:00.000-08:00

Marami nang nangyari buhat nang dalawin namin ang mga yumaong mahal sa buhay sa Eternal Gardens at Himlayang Pilipino. Pero 'di ko pa rin malimutan ang sumusunod:

Ang pagkain ni tatay ng puto, pagsama ng pustiso, na siya namang nagbunsod ng bago kong tongue twister para sa mga magulang: "Puto pustiso, puto pustiso, puto pustiso..."

Sa 'di kalayuan, natanaw ko ang bakod ng libingan na ginawang Chinese garter! Nilulundagan ng batang babae. Nainip siguro.

At nang mapagpasyahan na naming lisanin ang sementeryo, mabagal ang andar ng mga sasakyan. Pagbukas namin ng stereo, Hanggang sa Dulo ng Walang Hanggan ang tugtog! Parang may ililibing lang, kaya dali-daling pinatay ang sounds. Hehe

2011-11-04T22:46:00.000-07:00

It all started with poking.

Ang we can’t even remember who started it on Facebook. Angie was a classmate in SocSci during my UP undergrad years. As we would always say, it’s hard to find true and lasting friends in college as compared to high school. In our case, we took different courses and we’ve only been together in one subject. Marami ka talagang makikilala, pero piling-pili lang ang makakasundo at magtatagal. Soon, you’ll tread on separate paths finding your own jobs and new circle of friends. Pero kumbaga sa boyfriend, nasa amin siguro ang tinatawag na “spark.” Yung tipong apat na taon o mahigit pa mula nang huli kayong magkita, but it seemed only last week when you finally met again. Pero hindi pa rin namin maalala kung paano kami nagtawagan ng “mumu.”

At dahil pareho kaming fan ng Bubble Tea, nag-food trip na lang kami at sinubukan ang Roasted Tea at Iced Coffee with cheese cake cream. Sa pag-aakalang mabibitin, we ordered Nippon Ebi, The Great Fuji, and Seafood Kani Sticks. But no, the servings were huge and we didn’t finish them though we stayed from past 6:30 until 9:00 pm. Mas nabusog siguro sa kwentuhan at literal na nagka-bubbles sa katatawa.

We played the game of thinking words that have something to do with our friendship. Things like:

1. Doppelganger
2. CASAA (food court destination after class)
3. Mangga at bagoong
4. Eliseo de Guzman (our prof)
5. Deviance (our report topic where we connived with the professor, creating a scene na kunwari hindi kami handang mag-report at magagalit siya. Sabay sabing “Get out!” That is an example of deviance. Hihi)

Siyempre kasama rin sa talking points ang:

1. Career (Masaya ka naman sa work?)
2. Studies (Itutuloy ba natin sa PhD?)
3. Love life and longing for extraordinary fairy tale endings (Halimbawa: Dapat espesyal ang unang pagkikita; Dapat nauunawaan ka niya at ‘di mo na kailangang magpaliwanag; Spontaneous lahat, hindi pilit)
4. Aging (hahaha)

‘Di kasi maiwasan ang mga pagkakataong ipararamdam sa ‘yo na nagkaka-edad ka na. Gaya ng narinig ko kinaumagahan sa radyo. “Retro Friday” pero Together Again ni Janet Jackson ang tinugtog. E panahon ko ‘yun a! Siya rin daw, sa TV naman: Back Tracks pero Britney Spears pala. Retro at back tracks na ba ang mga kanta ng aming panahon?!

At sa pag-iisip namin ng susunod na pagkikita, ang konsiderasyon: Ang tuhod! Huwag nang magpagod sa pag-iikot sa mall. Isa pa, madi-distract lang kayo sa pagkukwentuhan dahil… “Uy, ang ganda ng blouse o!”

Sa pag-uusap din namin tungkol sa love life, sinabi kong ‘di uso sa ‘kin ang paglalagay ng “It’s complicated.” Dapat meron lang o wala. Pero kung complicated ang hanap mo… Haaay. * Speechless.

When I woke up this morning, I still remembered last night, na kahit fan ako ng Bubble Tea, parang ‘di ko nalasahan ang food dahil sabik akong makasama ang mumu ko. Parang ‘pag ikakasal, walang ganang kumain. At nagpapasalamat talaga ‘ko dahil pagkatapos naming mag-usap, desidido na ‘kong buksan ang isipan at tibayan ang loob sa anumang pinagdaraanan.

Sa tunay na magkaibigan, hindi hadlang ang panahon, mga sitwasyon, kinaroroonan, at edad (hehe). Mumu and I, friends for life… and beyond.

Taiwan Film Festival

2011-10-30T16:44:00.000-07:00

What happens when a struggling and almost hopeless band gets supported by and gets entangled with the ways of gangsters? It’s the funny premise of “Gangster Rock,” a very amusing R-18 comedy. Violence and expressions like “dreamless dogs” aside, we come to see how mushy guys can get.

But far from the action and thrill of Gangster Rock, “Three Times” challenged our stamina. The story was divided into really, three times: Time for love, time for freedom, and time for youth.

Consider timing. There were portions where scoring could have come earlier. And so while the couple was eating supper and suddenly sweet music faded up, I asked: Bakit ngayon lang ‘yan? Haha. And when the man was shown travelling on a fairy boat for long, I thought, “di ba pwedeng lumubog para may kuwento?” There were a lot of talkless Billiards scenes so we also considered the production to be some kind of an ethnography. ;-)

Consider dialogue too. In part 2, the dialogue was not put in subtitles but in full screen. They could have saved a lot of time – our precious time. Later, there were technical glitches (a pirated DVD?) which also confused me. People started to walk out of the cinema. Could also be part of the story. Hihihi

Oh and by the way, you’ll also remember the film for recurring objects like the kettle and motorbike.

Sem-Ender

2011-10-19T19:48:00.000-07:00

It has been a very productive semester! I have enjoyed all three subjects, consisting of Ethnography and Fieldwork in Broadcast Research and electives in the fields of Sociology and Anthropology. The video projects and seminar papers were not just requirements to be met, but things that we found very enjoyable. All are excited for Sining del Pilar: Ethnography Series, an effort to present our final academic projects to the public.

Pansamantala is an ethnography of the waitingshed which shows how the physical structure has been appropriated in urban andrural settings. My partner and I, our cultural counterparts, and the studyitself are conditioned by the temporariness of things. The main element in thisfilm is the endless wait in theneoliberal era, without any assurance of whether what we are waiting for willever come.

In the field site, stories are waiting to be told. When thecamera starts to roll, it waits for things to unfold.

Top 10 Reasons to Half Your Day at Work

2011-10-10T23:32:00.000-07:00

Whatever the season, the following are top reasons for either going home early or going to the office late:

1. Grocery. Handa na ang listahan para sa handaan!
2. Toilet issue. Hindi nakapaghugas nang maigi kaya medyo itchy. ‘Di mapakali. Tingin nang tingin sa relo at hinihiling na sana uwian na. (Idea inspired by my best friend’s boyfriend – with matching exercise routine to relieve the itch.)
3. Avoidance technique. May iniiwasan palang naninigil ng pautang o ‘di naman kaya’y problema.
4. May sakit.
5. Magpapa-passport.
6. May susunduin sa airport.
7. May ka-eyeball.
8. Binawi ang overtime.
9. May loan na inaasikaso.
10. May huhulihin sa akto / May iniimbestigahan

Monopoly Lessons Part 3

2011-09-29T01:55:00.000-07:00

Wala talagang katapusan ang pagkatuto. Ganoon din sa paboritong laro.

Dito, kahit alam mong talo ka na, mahalaga pa ring mamatay nang may dignidad. Masarap mamatay nang maraming pera.

Ang panalo ang siyang nagbabalasa. Kaya ang mga mapagmataas, sinasabing sawa na silang gawin ito. Alam ko ang pakiramdam, kasi lagi rin akong nagbabalasa. At kapag nagkakayayaan nang maglaro, isisigaw kong "Nasa'n na ang talunang si Nin?"

Natutunan ko na rin ang iba't ibang paraan ng pananakot:
1. Kunwaring paglalaglag ng "It's my birthday."
2. Ay, nalaglag... Forced deal
3. Deal Breaker na pinera lang

Bilang pangwakas, narito ang suggested theme songs para sa card game na Monopoly Deal. Pwede mong awitin ang mga partikular na linya habang naghihintay sa tira ng iba:
1. Lazy Song ('Coz today I don't feel like doing anything...)
2. Kunin Mo Na Ang Lahat sa Akin
3. Bakit Ngayon Ka Lang Dumating?

It's Just Great to Merrywanna!

2011-09-25T21:12:00.000-07:00

Through weekly recommendations in Stumble Upon, I came across this article that brought a smile on my face. It reminds us of the importance of taking time to smell the flowers... The very reason why I started this merrywanna blog more than six years ago.

Here it is:

How to Be Happier
Most of us tend to thinkthat if we just had a bit more money we'd get more satisfaction out oflife, but on the whole, this turns out not to be true. So whydoesn't money make us happier? New research by Jordi Quoidbach andcolleagues suggests that the answer lies, at least in part, in howwealthier people lose touch with their ability to savor life's pleasures.

Savoringis a way of increasing and prolonging our positive experiences. Takingtime to experience the subtle flavors in a piece of dark chocolate,imaging the fun you'll have on an upcoming vacation (and leafingthrough your trip photos afterward), telling all your friends on Facebookabout the hilarious movie you saw over the weekend - these are all actsof savoring, and they help us to squeeze every bit of joy out of thegood things that happen to us.

Why, then, don't wealthier peoplesavor, if it feels so good? It's obviously not for a lack of things tosavor. The basic idea is that when you have the money to eat at fancyrestaurants every night and buy designer clothes from chic boutiques,those experiences diminish the enjoyment you get out of the simpler,more everyday pleasures, like the smell of a steak sizzling on yourbackyard grill, or the bargain you got on the sweet little sundressfrom Target.

Create plans for how to inject more savoring into each day, and you will increase your happinessand well-being much more than (or even despite) your growing riches.And if you're riches aren't actually growing, then savoring is still agreat way to truly appreciate what you do have.
J.Quoidbach, E. Dunn, K. Petrides, & M. Mikolajczak (2010) Moneygiveth, money taketh away: The dual effect of wealth on happiness.Psychological Science, 21, 759-763

Mall Rats, Beware!

2011-09-25T08:15:00.000-07:00

The recent shooting incidents in SM North EDSA and SM Pampanga once again brought the authorities back to their toes. Now they’re rethinking the following:

1. The routinary inspection rendered ineffective by security guards who do it for eight hours (They’re suggesting the rotation of location assignments now.)
2. Walk-through machines that are just meant for display
3. The increasing number of loose firearms
4. The readiness of private security agencies in responding to crisis situations
5. The provision of gun vaults (as opposed to just keeping surrendered firearms underneath the unlocked wooden pigeon hole at the inspection area)
6. The proper use of metal detectors
7. Training on profiling (observing facial expression and body language while frisking)

So we can expect inspections to take a little longer in the coming days or weeks. I myself am a frequent mall-goer until recently. The unfortunate incidents remind us that we should always be alert with our surroundings no matter how engrossed we are with shopping.

Productive Pastime

2011-09-19T18:28:00.000-07:00

Materials Needed:

Scissors
Cardboard
Magazine pages / Makukulay na papel
Box of Juicy
Permanent Marker
Whiteboard Marker
Folder / ruler
Tissue paper
Alcohol

Instructions:

1. Column by column, burahin ang mga nakasulat na vehicle assignments sa whiteboard at maayos na i-rewrite. Gawing permanent ang mga linya.

2. Para sa mga nakagamit ng permanent marker sa kanilang schedule, gamitin ang alcohol para mabura.

3. Gumupit ng mga letrang V-E-H-I-C-L-E sa mga makukulay na papel. Idikit sa cardboard at lagyan din ng drawing. Gaya ng schoolbus na umuusok pa.

4. Palamutian ng mga ginupit na bulaklak.

5. I-cut out si Juicy mula sa kahon. Idikit sa magkabilang dulo.

6. Parang may kulang. Sulatan ng quotes para sa drivers gaya ng:

- Ako’y tumatakbo nang matulin upang oras n’yo ay habulin.
- Ang tumatakbo nang matulin, kung matinik ay malalim.
- Hila mo, tigil ko.
- Huwag pipikit kung ayaw maipit.
- Paalala sa mga bibiyahe: Kung gustong mapalayo, ako ang kunin mo.
- The early bird... becomes the angry bird.

Rice: ASEAN Stories, Weaving Tales

2011-09-18T22:42:00.000-07:00

In line with the Philippines’ title as ASEAN Culture Capital, the National Commission for Culture and the Arts and the Organization of Area Studies Majors in UP Manila presented the film “Rice” made up of different stories from the member countries produced by various filmmakers. The film-showing was held last Thursday at the UP-PGH Science Hall with an audience comprised of students from universities and colleges in Manila.

The independent films were the result of an ASEAN-ROK collaboration. With rice as a staple food in the region, it served as the weaving element for the social issues featured in each country. For instance, the first story tacked the problem of land ownership. A child, after witnessing how they are driven out of their abode, refused to eat dinner. She asked: “When will I be able to eat again?” While for Thailand, prostitution and deep mother-daughter relationships were portrayed. After a very young lady decided to engage in prostitution herself, the experience of eating rice with her mother was never the same. In “Rice,” the nurturing values and close family ties of people in the ASEAN warmed the heart.

I hope that copies of this film will be circulated more widely. And as I’ve heard from the president of the Organization of Area Studies Majors, they are planning to show the film again and invite more people.

Panunumpa ng Kawani ng Gobyerno

2011-09-11T20:06:00.000-07:00

Ako'y kawani ng gobyerno.
Tungkulin ko ang maglingkod nang tapat at mahusay,
Dahil dito, ako'y papasok nang maaga at magtatrabaho nang lampas sa takdang oras kung kinakailangan;

Magsisilbi ako nang magalang at mabilis sa lahat nang nangangailangan;
Pangangalagaan ko ang mga gamit, kasangkapan at iba pang pag-aari ng pamahalaan;
Magiging pantay at makatarungan ang pakikitungo ko sa mga lumalapit sa aming tanggapan.

Magsasalita ako laban sa katiwalian at pagsasamantala.
Hindi ko gagamitin ang aking panunungkulan sa sarili kong kapakanan.
Hindi ako hihingi o tatanggap ng suhol.

Sisikapin kong madagdagan ang aking talino at kakayanan upang ang antas ng paglilingkod sa bayan ay patuloy na maitaas.
Sapagkat ako'y isang kawani ng gobyerno at tungkulin ito ang maglingkod ng tapat at mahusay sa bayan ko.

At sa panahong ito, ako at aking mga kapwa kawani ay kailangan tungo sa isang maunlad, masagana at mapayapang Pilipinas.
Sa harap ninyong lahat, ako'y taos-pusong nanunumpa.

Monopoly Lessons Part 2

2011-09-09T22:37:00.001-07:00

Nagbabalik tayo sa laro kung saan karangalan ang mapag-interesan at ang dalawang milyon ay barya lang.

Masama ang loob ni Nin Pangilinan dahil hindi siya nabanggit sa Part 1. Kasi naman, si Alaine ang nagturo kaya sa kanya muna ang pagkilala. Pero kung maruming paglalaro at mga taktika ang kailangan, aba... sagot ni Nin yan! Narito na ang mahahalagang punto mula sa Monopoly Deal:

1. Kumuha ng simpatya at magpaapi. Sa huli, ikaw ang magwawagi.

2. “Magbababa na ‘ko agad dahil gusto ko ng easy money. Pagod na ko sa kahihintay, wala namang nangyayari.”

3. Player 1: Pangit ng baraha ko.
Player 2: Ako rin e.
Player 3: Alam ko na kung bakit. (Sabay tingin sa isa pang kalaban.)

3. Si Bryan, kahit ang “Go Pass” ay ipinagyayabang.

4. Minsan ang nagbabagsak ay nababagsakan ng maling desisyon.

5. Kung sinong kaunti ang pera, siya ang sinisingil para maipit. Pwersadong ipambayad ang ari-arian.

6. Sa huli, level up na kami…may timer. Pero ubos agad ang time dahil nang maningil, matagal silang magbayad ng renta. Ingatang huwag malito. Baka may makatakas.

7. Buwisit na timer. Sa pagmamadali, di ako naka-draw.

8. Walang saysay mag-birthday kung wala silang pera.

Nakakaadik talaga ang Monopoly. Pagtawag palang namin ng pangalan na may kaakibat na pagtungo ng ulo, alam na ang intensyon. At nitong huli, kababaihan na ang nag-aaya (Sina Bryan at Nin lang kasi ang master card players).

Monopoly Deal

2011-09-06T21:58:00.000-07:00

Salamat kay Alaine, natutunan ko ang laro kung saan ang mayaman ay lalong yumayaman at ang mahirap ay lalong naghihirap: Monopoly. Pero sa isang baraha, maaari namang mabago ang kapalaran. Alam ko na kung kailan dapat maningil, kailan dapat magbaba. 'Di pala lahat ng ari-arian ay dapat ipaalam o ipagyabang... baka ito ay masamsam. At ang susi kontra kahirapan ay ang kakayahan to just say no. Masarap din magtagumpay, kapag ubos ang baraha niya at masasabi mong "May kalaban ba 'ko rito?" At tandaan, kailangan magbaba ng pera para protektahan ang ari-arian.

Biglang may dumaan at nagsabing "Ang babata pa, monopolyo na ang iniisip!"

Dito lang ako nakakita nang may birthday at nalungkot ang lahat. At kapag may natutuwa, may maririnig kang "Huwag kang pakasisiguro. Agawin ko 'yan sa 'yo." May mga gahamang manlalaro rin na naningil na ng renta, nag-birthday pa!

Sinong May Gusto ng Maikli?

2011-08-27T08:49:00.000-07:00

Tagpo: Namimili si inay ng mga kandila sa grocery.

"Anak, anong gusto mo: Itong maikli o mahaba?"
"Siyempre 'nay, 'yung mahaba. Sino ba naman ang pipili ng maikli? Sa lapis, gusto natin ang mahaba. Sa pasensya, ganoon din."

Kaya naman siya'y napangiti at nagpasya nang ayon sa konsensya.

Pero may mga bagay din namang gusto nating maikli. Gaya na lang ng pila, at mga pagsubok sa eskuwela. Sana maikli rin ang mga pasakit at pagsusungit. Samakatwid, kung negatibo, ninanais nating maging maikli.

Ngayon, gagawin ko munang masaya at produktibo ang napakahabaaaaaaaang weekend.

Kung Ako ay Isang DJ...

2011-08-25T19:09:00.000-07:00

Ito ang plano kong playlist at introduksyon sa mga kanta:

1. Para sa mga mag-asawang chain smoker, narito ang isang awitin ng The Platters...
Smoke Gets In Your Eyes.

2. Para sa mga naninisi pero ayaw masisi...
Because of You ni Kelly Clarkson

3. Para sa mga nagtiwala at pinagkakatiwalaan...
You First Believed

4. Sa mga matitigas ang ulo at nagtatanong kung bakit hindi puwede...
Why Can't It Be?

5. Sa mga working hard ngunit 'di sumasahod...
Alipin (Shamrock)

6. At kung adik na sa Plants versus Zombies...
Staying Alive

Pasensya na. Naimpluwensiyahan lang ng ginagawa ko sa tabi ng co-writer habang gumagawa siya ng spiels sa teleprompter.

One Great Shopping Day

2011-08-15T22:21:00.000-07:00

Fashion finds in Greenhills are still budget-friendly.

Compared to previous visits, I consider yesterday as the best day at the shopping center. Maybe the nicest styles at most affordable prices are out this season, since in the past, I was only used to looking without buying! Got the following items:

Old Rose wedge sandals from Payless @ Php 799 (previously 1400+)
Striped light green top @ 150
Watch @ 200
Fab Blouse @ 340 (50% off the original price)
Dresses from Apartment(2) @ 200 each (previously 650 each)

This is now officially added to my top shopping destinations, with Divisoria, Marikina Riverbanks Mall, Circle C, and Trinoma.

Oh and by the way, I found out that the jeggings which cost 250 at Divi are sold at 350 in Greenhills. Well, just consider the shopping convenience.

Panghuhusga Batay sa mga Bahagi ng Katawan

2011-08-13T14:30:00.000-07:00

Siksik-liglig sa aliw at katuwaan ang reporting session kanina sa Anthropology of Philippine Culture and Society. Kabilang kasi sa tinalakay ang “The Dimensions of the Filipino’s Character” na isinulat ni Prof. Prospero Covar. Iniuugnay ang mga bahagi ng katawan sa katangian ng tao:

1. The face is the mirror of the soul (Hinuhusgahan natin ang mga “mukhang ‘di gagawa ng mabuti,” at mayroon din namang “mukhang lolokohin ka lang,” o “mukhang holdap-able)
2. A wide forehead is a sign of intelligence (Paano raw kung receding hairline lang pala? O kaya ay Cro Magnon?)
3. High eyebrows mean aloofness (Tatoo lang pala!)
4. Eyebrows that meet in the middle mean short-temperedness (Paano kung balbon lang talaga?)
5. A long chin means a man is a womanizer (Huwag daw yuyuko, baka masaksak ang sarili!)

Kung mayroong panlabas na anyo, ginagamit din ang mga lamang-loob sa paglalarawan:
1. Mapurol ang utak
2. Pusong mamon
3. Pusong bato
4. Salasalabid / Halang ang bituka (mamamatay-tao)
5. Maitim ang atay (malupit). Itatanong pa namin sa forensic experts kung anong batayan nito

At ang pinakamahalaga, ayon sa nag-ulat, ‘pag malaki ang paa… malaki ang sapatos.

Ako naman ang nag-ulat ng “Filipino Values” nina Alfredo at Grace Roces. Bilang pambungad, ilang katanungan para sa klase:

Nahihiya ka bang maningil ng pautang?
Nahiyang magbigay ng presyo para sa iyong serbisyo?
Natamaan ka ba ng bato-bato sa langit? Ikaw ba ay nagalit?

Sa panliligaw, dumaan ka ba sa isang tulay?

Hanggang saan ang handa mong ibigay sa ngalan ng pakikisama?
Nagpapaligoy-ligoy ka ba? Diretsuhin mo na.
Sinong may gustong matawag na walang hiya?

Ang tinatawag na Filipino Values ay gumagabay sa ating mga relasyon, sa ating lipunan. Narito ang ilang key concepts:

A. Hiya (Shame)
– ang tinaguriang “THE foremost value”
- Universally: A social sanction, creating a deep emotional realization of having failed to live up to the standards of society
- Philippine context: The uncomfortable feeling that accompanies awareness of being, in a socially unacceptable position, or performing a socially unacceptable action. (Frank Lynch)
- Controlling element in society
- A sense of social propriety (Mary Racelis, Sociologist-Anthropologist). It makes for conformity to community norms.

Mga halimbawa:
- Paggastos ng malaki para sa piging, kahit ipangutang pa
- Ang hindi pagtutol nang harapan, dahil kaibigan mo siya
- Ang hindi pagsasabi ng pangangailangan, kahit malapit pa sa iyo ang mahihingan ng tulong

Kayo, may iba pa bang naiisip na mga sitwasyong may kaugnayan sa hiya?

Ang isang walang hiya ay hindi na katanggap-tanggap sa kanyang grupo o komunidad. Isa siyang social outcast. Ano kaya ang masasabi ng Kanluranin dito? Siya na mas kontrolado ng individual sense of guilt kaysa group censure?

Isa pang punto ng pagkakaiba ay, para sa Pilipino, maaaring siya pa ang mahiya kahit siya ang nasa tama. Kaya pala tayo nahihiyang maningil ng pautang dahil manganganib ang amor-propio ng ating sinisingil. Bakit naman kaya hindi sila nahihiya sa atin?

B. Amor-Propio
- Love of self or self-respect
- Reinforces hiya, as building our self-esteem is essential

Mga halimbawa ng kakulangan ng Amor-Propio:
- Ang ‘di maalab na pagtanggap sa mga panauhin
- Ang pagtanggap ng harapang pang-iinsulto

May kaugnayan ito sa konsepto ng mukha o face.
- Ang mga nawawalan ng karangalan at nalagay sa alanganing sitwasyon (ang mga magulang ng lalakeng umatras sa kasal) ay nagsasabing: “Anong mukha na lang ang maihaharap namin?”
- Maaaring ang isang tao ay mahusgahan ng ibang nagsasabing; “Basang basa ang papel (image) niyan sa amin”

Batay sa mga konseptong ito, narito ang interesanteng diskusyon ng ating mga modus:

A. Ang Tagapamagitan (Go-Between)
- tagasalba ng hiya at amor-propio, isang paraan para matamo ang Smooth Interpersonal Relations (Lynch)
- para maiwasan ang harapang rejection (hal. Hindi type ni babae si lalake kaya ang matalik na kaibigan ang magsasabi)

Uso rin ang fixer, ang tagapamagitan sa burukrasya.

B. ‘Di-Tuwirang Tugon o Kritisismo (Euphemism)
- Ginagawa para ‘di mapahiya ang iba. Nasa anyo ng panunukso, white lies, pagngiti kahit ‘di sumasang-ayon, pag-iwas na sumagot sa telepono kung batid na tatanggihan lang ang tumatawag sa kanyang request, at paggamit ng disclaimers gaya ng:

• Personal opinyon ko lang ito…
• Sa tingin ko maganda, pero…
• Bato-bato sa langit, ang matamaan ay huwag magalit.

Pero hindi ba’t mas gusto nating sabihin na lang na “hindi” kaysa pinaghihintay nang labis?

C. Pagpapaligoy-Ligoy (Beating Around the Bush)
Naranasan mo na ba ang isang mahabang usapan na sa huli ay bibentahan ka lang pala ng raffle ticket? Ang madalas na modus, ang paggamit ng “Ay, nga pala…” Akalain mong muntik pang makalimutan!

Naging biktima ka ng pagpapaligoy-ligoy: Paggamit ng mga pasakalye bago tumbukin ang tunay na layunin sa pakikipag-usap.

Ginagamit din ito para hindi deretsahang magbigay ng negatibong sagot, gaya ng sa: “Susubukan ko pong makarating.”

D. Pakikisama
- Ability to get along, implying camaraderie and togetherness
- Kung kinakailangan, isasakripisyo ang sariling kapakanan para sa nakararami
- Sa isang pag-aaral ni Randolph David, lumabas na mas pipiliin ang ‘di masyadong magaling na ka-trabaho ngunit may pakikisama, kaysa sa magaling nga pero ‘di naman marunong makisama

E. Utang na Loob
1. Tinatandaan natin ang mga taong minsang tumulong, gumawa ng mabuti, o nagbigay sa atin ng pabor at kung may pagkakataon ay gagantihan ang kanilang kabutihan
2. Mahirap malaman kung paano ito mababayaran. Ang iba ay nagreregalo, at inaalagaan ang mga magulang sa kanilang pagtanda. Lumilikha ito ng malalim na obligasyon. Ito rin ang nagbibigkis sa mga grupo.
3. Iniiwasang magka-utang na loob sa taong hindi kasundo
4. Mga Negatibong Resulta ng Utang na Loob:
- Sa kasaysayan, nagkaroon daw ng utang na loob ang mga pinuno natin sa Estados Unidos pagkaraan ng Ikalawang Digmaang Pandaigdig (dahil sa pagpapalaya sa atin mula sa Hapon). Nagresulta ito sa paglalagay ng mga base militar dito gayundin ang US parity rights (pagbibay sa US citizens ng karapatang gumamit ng ating likas-yaman, amendment sa 1935 Constitution) sa ating konstitusyon.
- Political patronage: Pagtulong ng mga pulitiko upang makakuha ng boto

F. Kinship Group Motivating Behavior
1. Mas napapadali ang transaksyon o ugnayan kapag nagpapakilala bilang may kaugnayan sa kamag-anak, kababayan, o kaibigan ng kausap. (mutual acquaintances)
2. The family permeates all facets of Philippine society.Religion is family centered to a notable degree.
3. Nepotism – favoritism granted to relatives or friends regardless of merit

Pero ang kinship group ay lumalago at lumalawak. Napapabilang ang mga hindi kadugo sa pamamagitan ng mga ritwal. Kaya susunod ang:

G. Compadrazco (God Parenthood)
- sistema ng “pag-aanak” sa binyag, kasal, at kumpil
1. Sa binyag, ang pagnininong o pagnininang ay nangangahulugang pagiging ikalawang magulang ng bata. Anu-ano ang inaasahan kay ninong at ninang?:
• Mga regalo tuwing pasko at kaarawan ng inaanak
• Tulong upang magkaroon ng trabaho ang inaanak, o kahit anong paraang makatutulong sa kanyang kapakanan at kinabukasan
2. Compadre ang relasyon ng ninong o ninang sa mga magulang ng inaanak at sa kapwa ninong o ninang
3. Kadalasan, may anim hanggang walong ninong at ninang at may kasamang public official

Dumako naman tayo sa ilan pang tradisyon:

A. Binyag
1. Isang karangalan ang makuhang ninong, kaya para huwag magdulot ng hiya, huwag tatanggi.
2. Regalo sa binyag: Hikaw at damit
3. Handaan
4. Sabog ng barya para suwertihin ang bata at ang mga makakakuha

B. Kasal
Ang ritwal ng kasal ay hango sa tradisyong Espanyol habang ang pagkakaroon ng best man at bridesmaid ay mula sa Amerikano.

1. Pagreregalo ng mga bagay na magagamit sa pagsisimula ng mag-asawa
2. Maaaring mahuli nang kaunti ang babaeng ikakasal, at ang pinakamahalagang sponsor
3. Piging sa restawran, bahay ng magulang, o malaking venue
4. Pagpapawala nang kalapati
5. Pagsasabit ng salapi sa kasuotan ng bagong kasal
6. Pag-uuwi ng pagkaing inihanda
7. Kino-congratulate ang lalake, at “best wishes” para sa babae. Demure raw kasi ang Pinay at si lalake ang naghirap para mapagwagian ang kanyang puso
8. Pagsasaboy ng bigas paglabas ng simbahan
9. Wedding anniversaries: Silver (25th), Ruby (40th), at Golden (50th) kung saan may malalaking handaan at renewal of vows / re-enactment ng kasal

Nakita ninyo kung gaano kahalaga sa ‘tin ang pamilya at ang kin group. Mula sa mga kadugo, hanggang sa pagpapalawak natin ng mga koneksyon sa pamamagitan ng mga ritwal. Ika nga, sa lipunan, it’s not what you know but who you know. Pagdating naman sa hiya, ang kahihiyan ng isa, ay kahihiyan ng lahat. Ano kaya ang direksyong tatahakin ng ating mga pamantayan o values? Walang kulturang static. Patuloy tayong nagbabago. Sana lang ang mga pamantayan, magbigkis imbes na maging sanhi pa ng pagkakawatak-watak sa mga Pilipino. Dahil wala namang value na negatibo. Kung paano lang ito ginagamit.

Kailan Kaya Siya Maglalabas?

2011-08-06T11:35:00.000-07:00

"Kung bibigyan ka ng pagkakataong maglabas, ano ang ilalabas mo para sa amin?," ito na lang ang naitanong namin kay Rusell na nanlibre kagabi sa D' Marks gamit ang coupon. Sabi nga ni Mai, "Kailan 'yung totoong libre? Gusto kong maranasan 'yung dudukot ka na ng malaking halaga!" Hahaha...

Pero sapat na ang mapabilang sa kakaunti niyang naililibre. Isang malaking pizza at maasim-asim/masarap na pasta ang inenjoy namin. Pero sa yoghurt, KKB na. At nalibre pa ni Mai si Rusell!

Kaya aming siniyasat kung may iba pa siyang coupons. Baka sa Octoboy meron din? Akala ni Russ Teriyaki Boy ang nasa tabi ng White Hat. Nalito dahil parehong may Boy!

Dito rin sa lugar na ito sumakit ang tiyan ko katatawa sa sakla. Parang maganda itong gawin sa susunod na birthday ni Rusell! Parang may burol lang.

Nagkasundo kaming magbabarkada ukol sa mga elemento ng gimik:
1. Kailangan gabi.
2. Dapat walang sabaw.
3. Dapat may "tugs tugs."
4. Dapat may bagong number sa phonebook pag-uwi ng bahay. (kahit sa bouncer pa ito)

Sa paglalim ng gabi, napansin naming iba ang pagbigkas ni Rusell ng "bill" o "bills." Kapag si Rap, matigas ang tunog, pero 'pag kay Russ, may sabit sa L! Hehehe... Lumalambot!

Wala pa ring kupas ang samahan. At sa aming paghihiwalay dakong 1:00 am, nasabi ko kay Rap na kapag stressed sa trabaho, aalalahanin ko lang sila at okay na uli. :-)

Reasons to Check your Receipt

2011-08-02T16:56:00.001-07:00

After falling victim to some cash register strategies, I would like to share some of the reasons which make it necessary for customers to check their receipts. Whether intended or not, no excuses shall be considered.

1. The Insertion Method – Ito ‘yung hindi mo naman binili pero naisingit. Kadalasan, sa gitnang bahagi pa sila ng resibo matatagpuan. Mag-ingat, lalo na kung malaking grupo ang kakain sa restawran.
2. The Disappearing Act – Ito naman ‘yung binili mo, nasa resibo, ngunit ‘di matagpuan sa grocery bag. Items 1 and 2 are collectively known as Dagdag-Bawas.
3. The Mysterious Punch – Iba ang presyo sa menu o shelf pero nang i-punch ng kahera ay misteryosong nadaragdagan!
4. The Switch – Hindi mo pala resibo iyang hawak mo.
5. VAT Ganito ‘To? – Hindi pa pala kasama sa menu ang VAT.
6. Check for service charge to determine tip. Nagkakaiba ang mga porsyento sa iba’t ibang lugar. But generally, kapag may service charge na, hindi na kailangan magbigay ng tip.

Have a pleasant shopping and dining experience!

Trivia: When I was younger, I dreamt of being a cashier. Iyon lagi ang role ko kapag naglalaro kami. Minsan sa toll gate, parking lot, restawran, o kaya ay sa supermarket.

Iskalawag

2011-07-28T22:17:00.000-07:00

Lasing sa pagnanasa
Lango sa pangungulila
Sadlak sa hirap
Lunod sa pantasya
Hibang sa tanikala

Bilanggo ng kiliti
Bihag ng paghihiganti
Alipin ng pagtitimpi

Salot ay tinatangkilik
Nasasakdal ng pagkakataon
Nagdiriwang sa delubyo
Nag-aapoy sa panibugho

Basa sa tag-araw
Tigang sa tag-ulan
Peligrosong kapusukan
Resbak ng katotohanan
Biktima ng kapalaran
Salarin ng kabuktutan
Mata lang ang walang latay
Palyadong isipan
Baluktot na katwiran
Nagtitika sa piitan

Araw-gabi, nagpapakintab ng tsapa
Nananalangin sa huwad na propeta
Nabagansya sa iskinita.

Nakaratay sa kayamanan
Nagpapasasa sa banig ng karamdaman.

* Sa pakikipagtulungan kay Diwa, isang gabi sa UST Hospital

Time Will Come

2011-07-14T18:29:00.000-07:00

Life is indeed full of surprises. And finally I can proudly claim that there have been things I never thought I could do, which I have already done and faced with a strong heart. We often say “never regret,” but time makes us realize that regrets can be inevitable. It’s part of growing up.

I once met a handwriting analyst. He made me write my name, signature and the word “I love you” in cursive (which I rarely do). Then he started describing me as rarely thinking about love. That my priorities are my parents and career. Well that is partly true. Reaching quarter life, there’s a lot of questioning going on. An important point he made: That I am determined to achieve the things I planned though engaged in some sort of self deceit. Hence I can say that I love or want something, though at the subconscious level, things become uncertain.

Today I wrote, “accept a broken heart if it will change your life for the better.” I am not afraid of change anymore. Be it for work, study, and even love, stronger faith is the way to go. And for now, I consider it as the only choice.

Past is victory. It should remind you of the good things. Choose the ones to embrace. Those that will inspire you to always move forward. If your heart is still aching, don’t worry. Time will come, so be kind to yourself. People have been asking and I just keep saying "there is time for everything." Believing that patience is a virtue, delayed gratification is something worth considering.

And finally, home is what makes all worthwhile.

Kasalang Sibil

2011-06-16T18:04:00.000-07:00

Ito ay isang tagpo sa studio, kung saan isang audioman ang nagtanong kung bakit hindi pa ako nag-aasawa sa edad na 25. Hindi ko ipaliliwanag dito kung bakit, pero kailangan ko lang talagang ibahagi kung anong lubos na nagpatawa sa akin.

Ang nagtanong pala, hindi pa rin naman kasal pero natagpuan na ang "The One." Madali na lang naman daw ang kasal. Puwedeng civil. Basta pumunta lang daw sa Civil Service Commission. :D

At biglang binawi niya ang sinabi. Hindi naman daw dahil kailangang mag-apply ng eligibility para maging permanent...ang relasyon. Hahaha

Sumagi tuloy sa isip ko, what if may lumapit sa window ng CSC na mag-nobyo at magsabing "Nagmamahalan po kami." Sasagot ang nakaupo: E ano ngayon? =p

Simple Joys @ 25

2011-06-15T14:20:00.000-07:00

As we marked my silver year with a joyous and intimate celebration, new memories with family and the closest friends inspired me to go on further... Living each day of my life as a precious gift from above and one that I can share with others.

On the eve of my birthday we travelled to Baretto, Olongapo to rest overnight and go swimming and boating the following day. Like a child, I kept my feet dipped as the boat went. I really enjoyed the water! It was just short of an hour but of all the rides I had before, I loved this one the most.

We also experienced the eat-all-you-can in Holiday Land (@ Php 179) and Cafe Rustico (@ P150). Kare-kare with bagoong's my favorite. We also tried Adobong Balut.

Homebound, we strolled at SM San Fernando for the first time. I couldn't help but notice the many beautiful Kapampangan faces that we encountered.

Monday became special as I reconnected with some old friends through Facebook chat. There's a lot of catching up to do, but it's nice to have made the first step to keep in touch.

Yesterday, Tuesday, I just treated some officemates to a spaghetti breakfast and also went chatting the night away with very close friends. They are really the ones whom I can finally claim as having lasted the test of time. Years passed but nothing much has changed. We had a good laugh and shared about serious matters too.

From my 25th birthday forward, I resolve to be more forgiving, determined, reflective, sharing and loving. All is possible with prayers.

Ang Pag-Iisip, Bow.

2011-06-13T11:22:00.000-07:00

(Hango sa FB comment thread)

Sabi nila, nakakapagod mag-isip. Sabi ko naman, huwag na lang isiping nakakapagod mag-isip. Pero tama nga namang maraming dapat pag-isipan. At kung iisipin, masarap ding mag-isip. Lalo na kung iniisip ka niya!

Sa huli, napag-isip-isipan ko na ang pag-iisip ay ‘di na dapat pang isipin. Basta ang isipin mo na lang, huwag pag-isipan ng masama ang iba. Kung may mga ganyang kaisipan, aba’y mag-isip-isip ka muna.

A Separate Reality (Further Conversations with Don Juan)

2011-06-09T17:11:00.000-07:00

by Carlos Castańeda

1. The most effective way to live is as a warrior. Worry and think before you make any decision, but once you make it, be on your way free from worries or thoughts.

2. We learn to think about everything and then we train our eyes to look as we think about the things we look at. We look at ourselves already thinking that we are important.

3. Everything is equal and therefore unimportant… There is no way for me to say that my acts are more important than yours, or that one thing is more essential than another.

4. I personally don’t like to be sad, so whenever I witness something that would ordinarily make me sad, I simply shift my eyes and see it instead of looking at it. But when I encounter something funny I look and I laugh.

5. To be victorious and to be defeated are equal.

6. To like people or to be liked by people is not all one can do as a man.

7. To be defeated was a condition of life which was unavoidable. Men were either victorious or defeated and depending on that, they became persecutors or victims. These two conditions were prevalent as long as one did not “see”; “seeing” dispelled the illusion of victory, or defeat, or suffering.

N.E.

2011-06-05T23:35:00.000-07:00

Not “No Entry,” “Not Eligible,” or “North Expressway.” This post is for our fourth featured province, Nueva Ecija. N.E. is also the name of their popular supermarket where you can buy pastries, sumptuous dishes, and frozen goods for pasalubong.

This Thursday, we will be showing their native recipes for Sinampalukang Manok, Tilapiang may Gatas ng Kalabaw paired with their giant eggplant, Kalderetang Kambing, Tulyang Bola-Bola, and Patong Tiim. Yes, you read that right. Tiim for nanuot na tamis at linamnam.

There is certainly more to this province dubbed as the “Rice Granary of the Philippines.” After all, they are already considered as our “Food Bowl.”

You will also see the production of salted eggs and items made from carabao’s milk. Discover how it differs from other sources of dairy products in terms of nutritional value.

Mayor Lorna Mae Balunes-Vero of Llanera, Nueva Ecija is now in her second term. In our upcoming episode, she will share how they implemented the integrated approach encapsulated in the acronym HAPLOS NG BUHAY. I liked that among the municipalities that we have featured so far, they are the first to provide a regular publication by which necessary information reaches the constituents.

A highlight of our visit is the Llanera Techno Pinoy CLARRDEC’s 2010 Best Farmers’ Information and Technology Service (FITS) Center. In relation to the Philippine-Israel Center for Agricultural Training (PICAT), Mayor Vero is proud of having presented the largest eggplant grown in the FITS Center weighing 1.7 kilograms.

Personally, I am glad to be part of the show’s culinary edition, because it is always an adventure to learn about our peoples’ ways of life through what they eat. More to come!

The Teachings of Don Juan: A Yaqui Way of Knowledge

2011-06-01T18:06:00.000-07:00

(Carlos Castańeda, 1968, Ballantine Books, NY)

1. You must search in your heart and find out why a young man like you wants to undertake such a task of learning.
2. Not every place was good to sit or be on, and that within the confines of the porch there was one spot that was unique, a spot where I could be at my very best.
3. You are a serious person, but your seriousness is attached to what you do, not to what goes on outside you. You dwell upon yourself too much. That’s the trouble. And that produces a terrible fatigue.
4. You get angry at people when you feel that their acts are important.
5. A man of knowledge is one who has followed truthfully the hardships of learning. A man who has, without rushing or without faltering, gone as far as he can in unravelling the secrets of power and knowledge.
6. Learning is never what one expects.
7. A man can call himself a man of knowledge only if he is capable of defeating his four natural enemies: Fear, clarity (dispels fear, but also blinds), power, and old age.
8. A man is defeated only when he no longer tries, and abandons himself.
9. Anthropology has taught us that the world is differently defined in different places… this world, for all its differences of perception, has its own inner logic… our own world is also a cultural construct… The essential skill of good ethnography – the capacity to enter into an alien world.
10. Anything is one of a million paths. Therefore, you must always keep in mind that a path is only a path; If you feel you should not follow it, you must not stay with it under any conditions… Does this path have a heart? If it does, the path is good.
11. It was not the fear of dying, but rather the fear of losing my soul, a fear common among men who do have unbending intent.
12. She failed… because you did not budge from the spot on which you are invincible.
13. A man of knowledge needs clarity of mind to match his own specific reasons for acting with the specific purpose of every action.
14. One was capable of conquering fear only by facing it.

First Trip to Mindanao

2011-05-22T19:44:00.000-07:00

For the production team’s third out-of-town trip, we featured the Dinagatnon’s way of life in the province of Dinagat Islands, CARAGA region. They were formerly part of Surigao Del Norte. I appreciate every province that we visit and all the new experiences they bring. But the entire trip was not at all smooth-sailing, as we had to live with time and material constraints, observing how poverty afflicts their citizens. Mayor Gwendolyn Ecleo briefed us with the information that 80% are indigent families who rely on government. Though we are only supposed to produce a lifestyle program that focuses on cooking, we cannot separate the sad realities in the community. These were already shown in previous documentaries.

We did the following:
1. Had a 1 hour 20-minute flight from Manila to Surigao City via AirPhil Express, then an hour of boat ride to Dinagat
2. Hitched in motorcycles to get footage, running for more than 15 kilometers uphill. Videos include the hanging bridge, seawall, hospital, goat and carabao-raising, and vegetable farm
3. Featured native hats and mats made of Romlon.
4. Taped cooking demos by the different barangays including the seafoods preservation (Ginamos) of Cab-Ilan, seaweeds calamay of New Mabuhay, and Bukayo of Wadas
5. Went to the bakeshops featuring the famous Cream Loaf and Royal Bibingka which uses coconut milk and flour instead of rice
6. Witnessed the conference of the Philippine Benevolent Missionaries Association, which is accused to be a cult. Later we felt the earthquake in the island.
7. Entered the castle of the Ecleos at night
8. Bought lechon at 300 pesos per kilo
9. Shopped at Lovely Souvenirs and had a chat with the kind saleslady. She even gave me a gift: The yellow turtle keychain! I will add her up now on Facebook. :-)

The Flight

2011-05-15T18:56:00.000-07:00

As you soar to greater heights and into wider horizons, here is your safety guide for the flight.

Make sure that your seat back and tray table, just like your principles in life remain upright as we take off. Your carry-on luggage, like your priorities, should be placed and arranged properly.

When the seat belt sign or warning signs from friends and relatives illuminate, you must heed their advice and decide according to your own judgment. Insert your values (metal fittings) one into the other, and tighten by pulling on the loose end of the strap. To release your seat belt, lift the upper portion of the buckle.

We suggest that you keep your seat belt fastened and your good friends around throughout the flight, as we may experience turbulence.

There are several emergency exits on this aircraft. Please take a few moments now to locate your nearest exit. And so in life, prepare before trials comes along. The best solutions may not always be the conventional. In some cases, your nearest exit may be behind you.

If we need to evacuate the aircraft, floor-level lighting will guide you towards the exit. People who love and care for you will be like shining stars in every dark night. Doors can be opened by moving the handle in the direction of the arrow. Opportunities will come along your way so it is up to you to choose for which ones you are going to open up yourself. Each door is equipped with an inflatable slide which may also be detached and used as a life raft.

Oxygen and the air pressure are always being monitored. In the event of a decompression, an oxygen mask will automatically appear in front of you. When the going gets tough, do not hesitate to pull the mask towards you to start the flow of oxygen. Place it firmly over your nose and mouth, secure the elastic band behind your head, and breathe normally. Friends are always here to help.

If you are travelling with a child or someone who requires assistance, secure your mask on first, and then assist the other person. Be the helpful soul.

In the event of an emergency, please assume the bracing position. A warm embrace is always comforting.

A life vest is located in a pouch under your seat or between the armrests. Open your heart and say a sincere prayer to help carry you through any difficult time. Trust in God always. Pass the straps around your waist and adjust at the front. To inflate your faith, pull firmly on virtue. If you need to refill the vest, blow into the mouthpieces. Use the whistle and light to attract attention.

If you have any doubt, don’t hesitate to ask your elders, mentors, friends, and relatives.

Now, sit back, relax, and enjoy the flight.

Isabela

2011-05-08T20:25:00.000-07:00

From Visayas, next in our line-up of provinces to be featured in Sheka is Isabela in the North. Aboard a Florida Super Deluxe bus, we took the seven-hour trip to Alicia where we stayed at Rosato Hotel by the highway. Leaving Earnshaw bus terminal at 8:15 pm of Thursday, we reached our destination past 3:00 am of Friday.

We took long travels within Isabela, seeing vast farmlands and passing by the Cagayan river. We were able to maximize our stay as we explored how the locals actually live and to discover the traditional recipes that they came up with.

I was able to:
1. Sample their dishes called Abal-Abal (Salagubang or Beetle) made crispy, Pato Tim (uses duck meat instead of pata), and goat specialties.
2. Enjoy the boodle fight during the evening party hosted by Vice Governor Rodito Albano at San Pablo, Isabela.
3. Visit the farm of Tata Lagring, a Gawad Saka awardee and interview him about his beginnings as an agriculturist from UP Los Bańos and how he maintains integrated farming in 80 hectares of land.
4. Know Mayor Ma. Lourdes Panganiban of Angadanan, Isabela whose background lies in trauma counselling. She pushes for women empowerment, bringing knowledge on Magna Carta of Women to barangays.
5. Watch the beauty pageant held in Cabagan.
6. See how they make the Patupat and Atsarang Labong (Bamboo Shoot Pickles).
7. Go to the trade exhibit in Ilagan.

Catch the episodes of Sheka on May 12 (Bohol) and May 19 (Isabela), 8:30 – 9:30 am in PTV-4. This is part of the tie-up between the station and the Lady Municipal Mayors Association of the Philippines.

Bohol Firsts

2011-04-29T03:22:00.000-07:00

My first domestic flight was to Tacloban via Cebu Pacific. That was for an activity of the church organization back then. But as part of the job in Sheka and The Morning Show, it is my first time to fly to Tagbilaran, Bohol via PAL (and the 5:30 am flight schedule allowed me to enjoy the skies better). With this trip came a lot of firsts starting with a personal calamity. But overall, the experience had been fabulous.

1. First time to be asked for a PIN after having turned my phone off for takeoff. The result: Enter PUK code.
2. Stayed at Chocolate Hills Hotel and Restaurant
3. Taped cooking demos for Chicken Hinalang (spicy native chicken with coconut milk, onion, pepper, ginger and red chilies, like a version of curried chicken), Fried Native Chicken, Bohol Embutido, Ube Jam from the Kinampay variety, organic Cassava pie, and a drink called Kinutil (made of Tuba and Chocolate)
4. Featured livelihood projects in the municipality of Carmen including the handloom, basket-weaving, and banana chips making.
5. First time to enjoy a full body massage by a blind masseur
6. Drove the ATV (all terrain vehicle) to Seven Sisters. Had a nice lunch with a fantastic view of the seven hills + "one suitor"
7. Ate Makopa for the first time. (Okay, don't ask me if I'm Filipino)
8. Came close to a Loboc Tarsier
9. Stopped by the man-made forest
10. Visited the San Pablo Apostol and St. Anthony de Abbot churches

I love this job!

What Easter Means to Me

2011-04-24T17:57:00.000-07:00

I remember a priest saying that anytime is a holy time. How many Holy Weeks have we observed in this lifetime? How many Easter Sundays have passed? Have we actually prepared ourselves to receive God's light? Or do we continue to live in the darkness of the tomb?

This year's Easter has been particularly so meaningful as I've gone through the biggest spiritual trials recently. I can say that I am so blessed with friends who helped me emerge victorious. Often, we know the right things to do but we need other people whom we trust to speak to us and say those reminders that we needed to hear.

I also recall in our class that ethical decision-making is not just a matter of having a good moral character as most of us think. Often, no matter how strong we think we are, we still arrive at the crossroads of our lives. Truly, it is not just a matter of deciding between right and wrong, good or bad, but by knowing how to stand by our chosen paths.

And so like many other believers, I also came to a point of hopelessness. But God's words always came to the rescue. Maybe the most trying times made me feel that everything was hanging by a thread and it was either I keep holding on or lose it all. I thought I lost it all.

But we are still fortunate to be given a chance at a new life. I took the opportunity to speak with a priest on Maundy Thursday and he was kind enough to listen and advise.

The Sunday homily centered on Easter as the most important occasion in the Christian calendar. It is the very reason of Christianity and the efficacy of our Sacraments including Reconciliation.

How do you feel when you are given another chance after a severed relationship? You make a promise to God and yourself that you will turn away from the cause of His suffering.

I must admit that I have not gone to confession for about ten months. I came to thinking that once and for all, I must be able to pass through at least a week without committing the same sins. But Father said that this is the normal spiritual itinerary of Christians. We repent, we fall again, but we should not hesitate to come back, confess our sins, and keep connected with Him.

We are not perfect. But we have a God who embraces us with our imperfection and if we cling to Him, we shall not lack.

Happy Easter!

The Love Pearl

2011-04-23T17:11:00.000-07:00

Though mom and I were not able to join dad in his trip to Puerto Princesa, Palawan, I was almost there with all the pictures he sent and the pasalubong he brought. Aside from the souvenir shirts, bracelets, and the packaged fresh seafoods which are very affordable in the province, he also gave me a special gift.

In a box were a necklace, pendant, and a can. There’s a line which goes: “Real love is gestated for long just as a pearl in its shell, only expressed to the unique person.” It asks you to make a wish before opening, with the following pearl colors corresponding to gifts: White for health, cream for happiness, peach for love, lavender for wisdom, and gold for wealth.

After making my wish (just like a child), I opened the sealed can and cut open the clam to take out the pearl. I imagined that to one’s dismay, a person may end up not finding any pearl inside! But I did get the love pearl inside the mollusc. I wiped and put it inside the pendant. My dad is really thoughtful!

The fresh water pearl is said to take three to five years to gestate inside the mother mussel until the diameter reaches 6.5 to 7.5 millimeters.

Comb Fetish

2011-04-14T20:39:00.000-07:00

In my birthday post last year, I shared about Dad's gift which was a Hua Mulan comb made of ox horn. And after ten months, I lost it! So sad... because we've been through thick and thin! It soothes the scalp and I believe it helped me maintain the shine of my treated hair. But it's water under the bridge so I decided to just drop by the store again at SM Annex in North EDSA to check out other natural materials for combs.

In the product write-up they mentioned the following benefits according to Chinese traditional medicine: Minimizing hair fall and breakage with less friction, promoting circulation and release of hair’s natural oil making our hair grow faster, reducing stress, relieving headache, and minimizing sprouting of gray hair.

In the hope of finding my old one, I just got the most affordable Sandalwood comb (Php 180). The most expensive was made of goat horn and I saw additional benefits of minimizing the greying of hair, healing fever and migraine as it is therapeutic. But having tried it, I found more comfort in using ox horn.

Oh I really miss that black comb with the hand carving.

Home Is Where the Heart Is

2011-04-11T21:18:00.001-07:00

Last Saturday was a very important day for the whole family. I together with dad, mom, some titos and titas went for a quick drive to Floridablanca, Pampanga near Basa Air Base to visit Tita Cita / Menchie who came from the US. Having retired, she plans to take a six-month vacation here.

And what a food adventure it has been! I only expected it to be an intimate reunion, imagining us sitting beside one long table for lunch. But it was far from that. A feast for the senses indeed!

So there was a buffet for lunch, featuring buttered shrimps, Kare-Kare, Kaldereta, Sisig, Adobo, Menudo, Lengua and more! On the sides awaited Roast Beef and Lechong Baboy. We topped it off with Langka sorbetes.

Rest was a word forgotten for we continued to devour fruits, biko with nuts, Papaitan, and Palabok in the afternoon.

Before nightfall, we packed up to travel back to Manila, of course not without pasalubong. The family is very generous.

But the people won't just let me escape without a song number. I just dedicated "Nothing's Gonna Stop Us Now" to the crowd, while "electricians" gathered around the machine to repair and do some adjustments. Hahaha

I hope this is not the last but...just the beginning of a tighter family relationship.

Point of View on Jan-Jan

2011-03-31T18:09:00.000-07:00

In the official statement of TV-5, it was emphasized that there was no intention to humiliate and abuse Jan-Jan Suan. Nevertheless, the resulting segment was found offensive by a portion of the viewing public. It is not the first time that the show and host Willie Revillame, were seen to be going beyond the boundaries of entertainment in good taste, compromising the dignity of ordinary Filipinos who become part of the show.

Points raised by TV-5 were that the participation was completely voluntary (of course, to win the prize) and that the young boy appeared to be in tears due to reasons other than feeling abused or humiliated (especially because of Bonel Balingit’s presence). But the bottom line is, there had been insensitivity on the part of the staff who could have decided to put the child to rest instead of continuing making fun of / exploiting the contestant.

Moreover, children belong to the sectors that require greater sensitivity and protection. What might have been the psychological effect on Jan-Jan, when he was made to dance repeatedly to the amusement of the audience? After all, the nature of the dance was highly questionable!

If we only find this entertaining instead of a case of child abuse, then something is wrong with our ethical standards. Society should be bothered.

Vietnam Through A Friend’s Eyes

2011-03-22T20:12:00.000-07:00

1. “Motorbikes in Vietnam are safe,” he said. Running at 20 kph, it doesn’t matter even if you fall. Crowded as the place is, you don’t fall to the ground but onto your neighbor! What’s more, there are times when you don’t have to stand on two feet and walk, yet you will be brought to your destination.

2. In Vietnam, there are many millionaires. Refer to the paper bill!

3. Filipinos offer before they eat (Kain tayo!). In Vietnam, older people eat first, not because of respect, but to check on the presence of poison. “They die first.” Interesting!

4. With a few Vietnamese words for starters, I was at the brink of giving up. Just listening and observing, I curiously asked while they are speaking in the local language: Are you fighting? “No. It’s just the most interesting part of the conversation.”

I really find it interesting to learn more about our neighboring country. Tell me more!

To The Hills of Bangalore

2011-03-09T22:50:00.000-08:00

With only a few days left in India, we flew early today from Mumbai to Bangalore via Jet Airways. From the airport, we were transported to Nandi Hill. Since it’s not safe for the bus to continue further and bring us to the top, we took an exhilarating walk with some shortcuts for the supposedly 4-kilometer climb. Some delegates lost heart in pursuing, thinking about the next 4-kilometer walk back to the highway. I suggested that we just roll afterwards. Yes, I do 4 kilometers daily (and 4 km along the beach is nothing), but not on a hill! Ratih broke the silence and questioned, “Do we have to go there?” which I followed with “Why am I here?” It’s good to see people in business attire engaged in hill-climbing too. But nothing could be worse than going up with a luggage. Luckily, we left them in the bus. We were already suspecting that from a 5-star hotel in Delhi, to a 3-star in Mumbai, a hostel was already next on their list. But we also welcome staying in caves, which offers a view of a thousand stars! To motivate us in our hill climbing adventure, travel guide Anil Pandhi gestures saying, “Hurry, lunch is waiting for you!” But I wondered, who’s cooking?

When I laugh, it’s 99.9% Anil. If destiny is something which was never planned but happened, then he is OUR destiny. Dubbed as the “principal of our lives,” he’s always got something “for all of us.” If this is good, well, there are two sides of the coin. He does not think of himself, but always for all of us. But on the other hand, he does not think of us as individuals!

Aside from “for all of you (e.g. We can have disco for all of you), he also resorts to template lines like “Definitely,” “Really?,” and everything “in five minutes.” Sometimes he changes it to ten minutes, like in “The plane is leaving in 10 minutes.” (But takeoff is still within 5 minutes.) I imagined him speaking over the airport paging system saying “All of you, may I have your attention please, for five minutes.” I asked a fellow ASEAN delegate if he trusts Anil. Yes, but only for five minutes. They also plan to start an online Ten Minutes group.

But Anil is really first among the most unforgettable Indian memories. Once I tried to verify his “5 minutes” but found out that the thing happened only in 30 seconds. When we were travelling in a bus to Agra, he pointed to the ceiling and said, “You can open this later.” We wondered if it was for fresh air but no, he said. It’s very dirty air. The delegates just looked at each other. The next thing he did was to offer coffee and tea, which was reminiscent of the Delhi Dialogue. I would also remember Anil as the man who sleeps with his arms crossed. Must be hiding something. My seatmate thought it could be a fake moustache.

We’re twenty-eight participants, but Anil always stops his headcount at 19 and asks “anybody missing?” And when he keeps on saying that there are just two hours left in our journey, it is better to be sure and ask how many kilometres more. Because of all these, we take advantage of any chance to get a photo of the sleeping Anil. In all fairness, he could pass for an Indian actor with all his entertaining antics and ability to cheer serious people up. Some of the delegates even considers selling Anil’s photographs. Should he pursue a career in show business, I’m sure to be his number one fan. What matters now is if we’ll allow him to keep his job. With our evaluation, who knows, he might even get promoted! Admitting that he’s never been to the places where he took us, he amazingly delivered. Very thoughtful too. Inside a restaurant while we were being served, we suddenly heard him saying “Mutton is coming.” Aside from playing by ear, his dynamic gestures also help.

With all the surprises that came along the way, we come to think: After the flight, what’s next? Maybe a meeting. Our routine can actually be described as eating-meeting-sight seeing-sleeping-shopping. We also memorized the drill whenever we shift locations: Passports everyone! It’s still an option between meeting first then sight-seeing, or sight-seeing then meeting. Many would choose sight seeing then shopping.

I slept during the flight and when I woke up I just heard “Welcome to Bangalore.” The first thing I saw was Anil. I remembered the advertisement leaflet distributed with our meals (with sample credit card holder Anil Prasad) and I jokingly asked: “So are you also into the credit card business?” This man can really build his empire.

With Anil being a common name in India, I asked him what it means. It was actually believed to be a lucky name. Does he believe that he’s lucky? He said, “Yes, I’m lucky for all of you.” Oh no! Hahaha. Later, he announced: “Sughanda is going to the restroom. Can we wait for her in five minutes?” The woman gently said, “Anil, you don’t have to make it public.” It’s just funny to see them conversing. Especially because when Sughanda asks him to repeat what he says, we prove that it’s not the tourist who has a problem in understanding. It’s really Anil! Ratih said it best: The more he explains, the more we get confused. But really, we laugh.

Anil is the epitome of resilience. I saw him skipping lunch to be in the company of two delegates who decided not to go climbing with us. Anil even thought of going to the disco. Is it where he’ll have lunch? And so I complimented him for a tough job well done. It’s a challenging tour to organize (many transfers, many things could happen). And he just said “That’s my responsibility for all of you.” Hahaha

But if there is anything I regret in my India trip, it’s not bringing the right size of luggage. Lesson learned: Nobody loves to travel with hand-carried press kits! Nothing could be worse than a broken luggage. If I buy here, cheaper luggage also, can be trusted only for five minutes.

I also gained insight on the much coveted window seat in the plane. Mr. Galvez’s punchline is: “You might have a hard time getting to your seat, I can just take it.” But Sughanda retaliated “I want it, if you don’t mind. You can have your window seat… (I filled in “in the bus”).

*If you’re travelling to India, don’t hesitate to contact Anil Pandhi of New Airways Travels. 84, Tolstoy Lane Janpath, New Delhi-01. Phone numbers 43509000 and mobile numbers 9810704998. E-mail newairways@hotmail.com. You’re sure to enjoy your stay with totally effortless humor. His mere presence and voice may result to frequent abdominal contractions.

Incredible India

2011-03-07T04:07:00.000-08:00

In India, the weather is cold but the people are warm.

But apart from the locals who welcomed us, it’s also our ASEAN colleagues that make the stay enjoyable and filled with laughter. Here are some unforgettable thoughts:
• Are they serving hot tea in the cocktail party? No, I said. Only hottie! And by the way, tea reminds me of the Delhi Dialogue! Hahaha
• A hump is called speed breaker.
• When I asked “Where is the nearest comfort room?,” the man said he had no idea. But I asked again, “How about toilets? Restroom?” And he pointed… “Ah, there!”
• Dinner time? Let’s go to Hall number 9! We’ll always remember walking a far distance in Pragati Maidan just to have dinner and miss the cultural program!
• While munching on nuts, I couldn’t believe that somebody said it’s spicy. But she added, “Try 5!” (seeing that I’ve only had one)
• Ratih, with her creative mind, abbreviated “visit to Agra” as: Viagra. Dangerous! And she sometimes accidentally calls Anil as An_l. Careful!
• The more he explains, the more we get confused. (Answer: Anil)
• I’m still wondering why it’s common to see vendors selling maps in the street.
• Indian Oil. Biryani and Naan. Crows that flock together, the “auto,” and small cars. 10-character vehicle plates.
• “I met someone from Brunei, but he has no card,” said the Indian journalist. No problem, the ASEAN Secretariat has the flight details!
• Mr. Galvez suggested that there be a Facebook account for the India-ASEAN press (in the guise of connectivity and people-to-people interaction but it all boils down to photo grabbing). But since it’s an added responsibility, Jatu and Ratih agreed that “it’s noted for consideration until further notice.” Hahaha. And since the username “Delhi Dialogue” might be boring, what about kamasutra@yahoo.com?
• Just when we were laughing too loud, we noticed that on the other table, ASEAN mediamen are interacting among themselves, instead of getting to know the Indian press! One even seemed to be the main speaker and the rest are reactors.
• When it’s entertainment time, Mr. Galvez and I would deny that we are Filipinos so that they won’t let us sing. Then later, he would also deny being a journalist!
• Other fellows complained of not knowing they’ll cover business. Their bosses only said “enjoy!” Haha

After attending the “1st India-ASEAN Business Fair and Conclave,” sessions of the “Delhi Dialogue 3,” and fora at the FICCI Federation House, we took a long bus trip to Agra to visit Taj Mahal. We came back to the hotel and packed our things for an early flight to Mumbai the following morning.

Within a week in India, it’s great having seen The Lalit, Le Meridien, The Connaught at The Oberoi (overlooking the Old and New Delhi), and The Ambassador in Mumbai. As I write this, we just arrived to the hotel after visiting Stock Exchange. Yes, we went straight to their office fresh from Delhi! As DDG puts it, walang pahinga! But we are obviously enjoying our trip. One more week to go. Philippines is still, where the heart is. =)

Logic

2011-02-18T19:35:00.000-08:00

Disclaimer: My dad was behind all these words of wisdom.

If it's time, it's time. (In Tagalog, "Kung oras mo na, oras mo na.")
Time is gold.
If it's time, it's gold! But, not all... that glitters is time!

Time heals all wounds.
Not all that glitters can heal all wounds.

At the end of the day, it's end of days.

Love’s Menu

2011-02-12T08:35:00.000-08:00

With the upcoming Valentine’s day, I prepared a menu comprised of the different kinds of love that we may celebrate on Monday and all the other days left in February. I hope that everyone may find serenity deep within their hearts this season.

True love for your…
Best friend, whom you know is always there despite hectic schedules, his or her own concerns, physical distance. With mine, I’m glad nothing has changed. Same funny, natural, honest, enjoyable conversations.
Teacher, who had imparted so much so that you can firmly hold on to your values and virtues today.
Boss, who may have given so many orders but only meant that he or she trusted you can deliver.
Mom and dad, who understood whenever you arrived home tired and was not always able to spend quality time with them. Your parents who perfectly know, accept, and love you without imposing anything.
Sisters and brothers, who are your buddies forever.
Loved ones who passed away, and whose memories will remain cherished.
Self, who always strived to make good, to succeed, to love, to rise again after every challenge, to find real happiness, to remain strong.
God, who made everything possible.

For love (and God is love), there are endless possibilities.

Puro Porma

2011-01-04T13:10:00.000-08:00

Nakapunta ka na ba sa isang restobar kung saan inaasahan mong may tutugtog na subalit puro porma pala? Ganito ang mga gawain ng nagsi-set up:

1. Mic test. 1, 2. 1, 2.
2. Ayan, may pinipihit na sa console.
3. Oops, nagtono muna ng gitara.
4. Nag-switch on na ng ilaw!
5. Nagtaas ng manggas.
6. Umalis muna.
7. Bumalik. Nagbukas ng laptop.
8. Nagkamot ng ulo.
9. Nagkamot ng ilong.
10. Ayan, dumating na ang vocalist at backup singer.

Ayun, nakatugtog na. Kaso puro feedback ang narinig namin.

New Year Celebration

2011-01-03T15:40:00.000-08:00

December 31, 2010

List of resolutions finalized:
1. Hindi na pupunta sa ukay-ukay, dahil na rin sa kahilingan ng nanay.
2. Be charitable and helpful.
3. Will have patience, however challenging situations become. (It's all part of the job.)
4. Will cook frequently and be hands-on in household chores (already started by cooking dinner, washing and wiping utensils, organizing space)
5. Will learn how to drive
6. Good diet (and on time)
7. Be always at my best when I go out and face the world! (And will pay more attention to my bags. Hihi)
8. 20-20-20 habit: Every 20 minutes, look 20 inches away from the computer for 20 seconds.
9. Already classified shoes! (Party, Sunday, office)
10. Will care more for my feet (comfortable shoes, moisturizing, nail care, etc.)

Tawanan ang mga miyembro ng pamilya nang kinagabihan, narinig namin sa flash report: "Ngunit imbes na SUMABOG... sa kamay niya ito... SUMABOG." Kaya sagot ni tatay: "Pero sumabog! Kaya kung bibili ng pasabog... tiyaking ito'y... sumasabog." (Tonong Mike Enriquez) Nakaka-distract ang report kaya imbes na matakot sa paputok o mahabag sa biktima, hindi mo mapipigilang matawa. Dahil 'pag pinigilan mo, baka sa iba ito... sumabog!

Samantala, hindi nagpaputok ang pamilya namin. Puro pailaw at pausok lang (kontra-Dengue)! Naobserbahan ko ang mga kaparaanan ni tatay sa pagsisindi. Minsan may mahabang stick, minsan katol lang na parang sobrang lapit na sa daliri! Gamit pa niya ang camera tripod na kapag bagong taon ay nag-iibang anyo. May Crying Cow, Roman Candle na parang chimney sa pag-usok, at lumang (take note, luma) luces mula sa Bocaue. Tungkol sa Luces, para ka lang nagsindi ng karton at gumaganda lang ang liwanag 'pag malapit nang maubos.

January 1, 2011
Tradisyon na naming dumalaw sa libing ng kapatid ko at magsindi ng ilang luces at roman candle. Ngayong taon, dinalaw din namin si Lola Viring. Tradisyon din naman ng ibang mga pamilyang dumadalaw ang magpakitang-gilas sa mga paputok at pailaw. Nakakatawang isipin na sa Eternal Garden (Balintawak), kumpleto mula sa mga boga, twitis, sinturon ni hudas, hanggang sa magagandang pagoda. Minsan nga 'di mo na alam kung saan galing ang mga liwanag sa damuhan. Nagpapaputok na rin ba ang mga patay?!

Pag-uwi, nag-videoke naman kami. Sa paglalim ng gabi at nauubusan na ng mga awitin, Making Love Out of Nothing at All, Kiliti, at Sayaw Kikay naman ang kinanta (at sinayaw) namin.

Hindi pa nakuntento. Pagka-dismantle ng videoke, nanood naman kami ng Ironman 2. Kailangan ba talagang may alagang ibon ang kalaban?! Buti na lang seryoso siyang magtrabaho, 'di tulad ni Ironman na mahilig lang sa party party. Naiintindihan naman namin sana ang kuwento, maliban sa German subtitle na hindi nakakatulong.

January 2, 2011
My family had a good laugh with the diagnostic machine at Mercury Drug. For just 5 pesos and by following the voice prompt, you get your blood pressure, weight, height, pulse rate, and BMI. You'll hear instructions like "Insert your wrist as shown in the picture."

Kaya naman nagkabiruan dahil naisip ko, ano kaya kung may urinalysis din? O 'di naman kaya'y may marinig kang "Please take off your underwear" habang nasa publiko? At kasunod na nga ang ideya ng nanay at tatay ko: "Please insert your tooot..." na maaaring kasunod ang:
1. Measuring length. Measuring diameter.
2. Information invalid. Please try again later.
3. Access denied. (with alarm)
4. (Hihigpit, parang 'pag kinukuhanan ng BP) If you wish to stop the process... sorry, you cannot stop the process. (Haha! Sapilitan na.)
5. A fecal matter was found in your underwear. You are advised to change it. Ang baho kaya! Hahaha...

2010 Rundown

2010-12-17T23:51:00.000-08:00

Just a quick one. This year has been okay, though the 365 days passed by so quickly.
I faced it with optimism, and I'm still ending it with this attitude. Sad things that happened... Well, my lola died, I had to end a relationship, our office didn't perform well. But it was also in 2010 that I did hosting, I was spiritually enriched, and started MA. You see, there are things which we cannot control or plan. But whaever good it is that we can do, whatever step that will make our dreams come true, we will do and take. Then we just entrust everything to the will of heaven.

There were new vistas that opened. There were new friends. I loved my parents more. I was able to save money for the future (though it came in small amounts).

I will face 2011 with the following principles:
1. God first. Always.
2. We are responsible for our own happiness.
3. We should never judge people because we don't have an idea what their journey is all about.
4. If you have the capability, take every opportunity to exercise charity.

Synthesis of Introductory Readings for Media Research

2010-12-06T19:35:00.000-08:00

“We think we know who we are, but perhaps
we have only developed into the people
we are allowed to be.”
- Stuart Price (And this might just be the
basis for the next blockbuster movie.)

Important Concepts for the Study of Media

The first batch of readings from six authors laid down concepts and perspectives that are helpful to anyone interested or starting to study the media, and it can be readily noticed that the authors converge at many points of their discussion. It is noteworthy that we media scholars are invited to take a social and historical perspective in studying communication, and warned against simplistic explanations about how meanings circulate in our society.

The Discipline and Our Motives

Stuart Price introduced Media Studies as multi-disciplinary, drawing from anthropology, sociology, psychology, and linguistics, among others. From his ideas I outlined the reasons that establish the importance of Media Studies:

1. Knowledge of media history is important to understand the institutions that produce and disseminate media texts (He already advocates a social and historical perspective here.)
2. Theory guides our action so that our work will not be “derivative” or mere reproduction (Thus a curriculum that adopts a theoretical rather than skills-training approach)
3. To make us realize how the emphasis in messages change as we shift among different media forms (As we first learned in Media Literacy)
4. Media Studies deals with cultural reproduction and discourse which affects everyone exposed. For me, then, engaging in Media Studies is to learn more about ourselves as we explore the factors shaping media institutions which in turn shape how we live. As Roger Silverstone said, “we cannot evade media presence, media representation.” (p. 1) He also argued that because media are central to our day-to-day living, these should be studied “as social, cultural, political and economic dimensions of the modern world.” (p. 2)
5. Cultural hegemony is a reason to study mass media as processes of persuasion (derived from “Culture and Communication”)
6. Finally, I liked what Roger Silverstone said: “Our concern with the media is
always at the same time a concern for the media.” (p. 5) This is a call for application.

Price talked about how different traditions of thought regarding society, have influenced media theory. Liberalism, Marxism, Social Reformism, and Conservatism led to different conceptions on the roles of media:
1. For reliable information to base economic decisions from. Media should not be run by the state. Sensible regulation is necessary. (Liberal)
2. For maintenance of the capitalist state in power (Marxist)
3. To play a constructive part in a mature democracy (Social Reformist)
4. For social cohesion (Conservative)

Views on Communication

Dance and Larsen’s definition of communication puts the individual at the
center of the process. A signifying code refers to any code that allows us to create meaning. I am at this point thinking of camera movement, sound, lighting, and editing techniques. It is interesting to note the argument that “we never get to know the real world, because we understand only the symbolic content we have built up to represent reality.” (Price, 3) Price pointed out that our sense of reality depends on symbols and the referred affecting each other.

Price started with process theories that explain communication, using the example of Watson & Hill and Myers & Myers who looked into the “measurable evidence of communication,” concluding that they are weak in the sense that what lies behind the surface was neglected. Price propelled the idea that an interpersonal and mass communication is not pure, not free from the struggle for influence and power. His pessimism is further seen in his statement that even rhetorical sensitivity is a device for gaining individual power. He led to the idea that the mass media imitate human interaction, addressing us as if we are intimately known. (p. 9 & 34)

At this point, we assume that communication is not being looked at as a simple transmission from point A to point B. The concept of mediation tells us that something is altered in the process. Television, press, film, and radio are all mediation which can affect our perception of events. Message is mediated through language, through a group of professionals, by technology, and through subjectivities of the receivers. (Price, 33) Roger Silverstone explained mediation in relation to translation and hermeneutic motion, that are never perfect. He also compared and contrasted mediation and translation, ending with trust as a precondition for mediation. (p. 18) But we should not miss what Joshua Meyrowitz, in “Mediating Communication” tells us, that we should see TV as more than a passive conduit for ideological messages. That there are other consequences aside from those determined by elite control. I will elaborate on this later in my synthesis.

As I proceed through the readings, I move from arguments for the power of the message, to arguments for the power of the audience who bring their own experiences and readings to bear upon the text... and back again. Particularly interesting is Price’s statement that it can be easy for the audience (here regarded as subordinate) to come up with alternative meanings because these are already present in texts. I call these planned alternatives. Overall, Price rejects simplistic views on how power operates. I appreciated how he wrote with reference to many sources (psychology, literature, sociology, books on media theory). He made me ponder on electives that I will take in the following semesters especially when I encountered representation and how people are formed (growth, language, roles, social norms) through his pages.

Allan O’ Connor and John Downing provided definitions for understanding culture as both a product and process. The importance of such understanding lies in the fact that how we view culture bears on our perception of media’s roles.

Views on Culture

Initially, my personal ideas on culture included cultural products, culture of violence, culture of impunity, workplace culture, and production culture as reflected in the choice of videos, editing, camera work, and hosting styles. Culture for me, is the way we live. It made me think of elements of Filipino culture like hospitality, religiosity (which I distinguish from spirituality which may be evident in the case of the Taiwanese), cooking with the use of sour ingredients which are very abundant in the islands, dining as bonding, malling and the tiangge, texting, Filipino time (which I refuse to accept but still prevails), and love for singing which included us in the map of international music.

Downing and O’Connor invite us to think of culture as an active and
interactive process and ask questions like who produces? What is produced? For whom? They used the painting as an example of cultural production and asked about the artist: “Do they paint how they wish or to make a living?” Parallel to what’s being said in “Culture and Communication” is Silverstone’s proposal to examine “media as process, as a thing doing and a thing done.” (p. 4) It demands an understanding of media as historically specific and politically economic.

They also distinguished popular culture from mass culture, with the former emerging “from the needs, wishes, and hopes of the general public,” (p. 14) and the latter as cultural expressions generated by big businesses to gain profit.

In their discussion on culture and hegemony, I am once again reminded of how my report on the Frankfurt School last semester brought back memories of Mass Society theories. From the view of mass media as hypodermic syringe, to the view that modern societies are immersed in commercially driven mass culture. After all, Frankfurt School was devoted to the study of the media as structures of oppression in capitalistic societies.

Titled “Culture and Communication,” important points were made in the article as: These two do not happen on a level playing field. True enough, what is communicated rarely challenges economic and political power. In the latter part of the article, the authors described Semiology as a tradition of cultural analysis that must be supplemented by the study of historical and political issues.

Let’s Talk TV

As I promised earlier in this paper, we shall look at the other consequences that make television more than a passive conduit, according to Joshua Meyrowitz in the article “Mediating Communication”:

1. The breakdown of traditional distinctions between adult and child, male and female, public and private: We raise our eyebrows on taboo topics that made their way to TV, especially with showbiz intrigues, and on happenings inside the Big Brother house. I felt awkward when contestants cried at Wowowee, broadcasting family problems that they cannot solve in the privacy of their homes, but they can blurt our on national TV. More so with Face to Face.
2. Limitation on the traditional system of adult control (A nice analogy was made between TV and a “new doorway” through which pass “unwelcome visitors”): Here, the author attempted to justify the commonly-heard remark “Iba na ang kabataan ngayon!”
3. Demystification of the masculine (which also made me theorize about men acting like women and women behaving like men)
4. Demystification of leaders: It happens everyday, with almost every news program or live talk show: Officials who cannot give direct answers and whose non-verbal signs give away, or those asked to react on issues which were first known by the anchor, and first-timers whose self-doubt is increased. The author also stated: “The more we see them, the more ordinary they appear.” Could the same be told about PAO Chief Persida Acosta and Valenzuela Councilor Shalani Soledad?
5. Widening of sensory experience (Silverstone also mentioned about media as bodily extensions)

In its entirety, the article by Meyrowitz can be taken as a positive approach
to television, giving an analysis of the “empowering” medium. He said that “we no longer experience political performances as naïve audiences” (p. 49) and this might have helped changing the breed of leaders. When he referred to leaders who no longer act like “imperial leaders of the past,” I am of course thinking of P-Noy whose famous line goes: Kayo ang boss ko.

But then again, we are asked to consider the discrepancies between TV
and reality. Because while the medium may increase our expectations, reality might not be providing opportunities.

The Macro Perspective : Technology

According to Silverstone, technologies do not appear “fully fledged or
perfectly formed. Nor is it ever clear how they will be institutionalized.” And instead of us compartmentalizing technology and culture, the author contended that media technologies can actually be considered as culture: The product of a cultural industry that operates within the structures of late capitalism. Moreover, in his essay titled “Technology,” he said that we can also perceive it as economics. He gave Internet economics as an example, where “information is both the commodity as well as the principle of its management.” (p. 24)

His statement that “the technologies are necessary but not necessarily sufficient conditions for change” can be related to Brian Winston’s essay titled “How Are Media Born and Developed?” Here we are provided a holistic perspective through which we can better appreciate history. From “thin” histories, he wrote samples of thick and thicker accounts, differentiating Technological Determinist and Cultural Determinist. Winston wanted us to focus on why a change happens at a particular period, rather than preoccupying ourselves with dates and figures who are credited for inventions. Technological Determinist A focused on “great men” together with the countries they came from. This manner of accounting for technological innovations has its implications on financial rewards. Technological Determinist B also lacks as it only reflected technical events. For Winston, changes are not merely brought about by available materials and scientific knowledge. He introduced the concepts of supervening social necessity (the accelerators) and law of the suppression of radical potential (brakes). In the context of sound in film, the industry did not readily adopt the technology due to the potential disruption to the profitable silent film business and the “inertia about changing over from the commercially successful method of having live music at each screening.” The observation that the technology was available, but the commercial desire and the need were not also applies to the case of digital broadcasting today.

Winston’s critique of McLuhan’s Technological Determinism ends on a positive note: We can adapt and use technology for our own freely determined purposes. Moreover, Annabelle Sreberny-Mohammadi believed that “one communications medium does not replace another rather, the new one is added on and often comes to dominate as the older forms take on different functions.” (p. 37) In schools, television may supplement learning from books, but it did not actually substitute them.

Epilogue

After reading and comparing the assigned texts, I believe that we are already equipped and ready to take off. We should bring with us the reminder and challenge of Roger Silverstone who said that it will be difficult for us media scholars to step out of media culture. We cannot deny that the texts we produce are still part of mediation. We agree that this is an epistemological difficulty that requires defamiliarization.

BIBLIOGRAPHY:

Downing, John, Ali Mohammadi and Annabel Sreberny Mohammadi. (1995). Questioning the Media: A Critical Introduction._Sage Publications.

Price, Stuart. (1998). Media Studies. Pearson Education.

Silverstone, Roger. (1999). Why Study the Media. Sage.

Rotary Confers Vocational Excellence Awards

2010-11-09T16:54:00.000-08:00

(Aired in The Morning Show on November 8, 2010)

For the first time, Rotary District 3780 conferred Vocational Excellence Awards to men and women in different businesses and professions. This year, it recognized seventeen awardees in an event hosted by sixteen Rotary Clubs in Quezon City. As most of us may know, membership in a Rotary Club requires involvement in a useful vocation and community service.

The occasion opened with a presentation by the Filipiniana Dancers at the Tejeros Hall in Camp Aguinaldo. Governor Pablo "Ambo" Gancayco delivered a welcome speech, sharing how he came up with the idea of launching the awards. First to be awarded was Mayor Herbert Bautista for the Public Servant category. He is also a fellow Rotarian at Kamuning and was endorsed by five clubs.

Among the awardees was Arnel Pineda, who also entertained guests with his three songs.

Here is the complete list of awardees as nominated by the clubs in Quezon City:

1. QC CENTRAL: GP ED BACUNGAN : PUBLIC SERVANT :MAYOR HERBERT BAUTISTA

2. BATASAN HILLS: BECCA DELA CRUZ: EDUCATION / MOST OUTSTANDING TEACHER: TERESITA BUSADRE

3. CAMP AGUINALDO: GP ADEL CORPUZ: MILITARY SERVICE: LT. GEN. RICARDO DAVID JR., CHIEF OF STAFF AFP (REPRESENTED)

4. CAMP CRAME: GP NICK BARTOLOME: POLICE: PNP CHIEF GEN. RAUL BACALZO

5. CENTENNIAL: GP ARIEL DIWA: BROADCASTING: MIGUEL ENRIQUEZ, SVP OF RGMA; 1999 BEST MALE NEWSCASTER, GOLDEN DOVE AWARDS

6. CUBAO EAST: GP POL MAYUGA: GOVERNMENT SERVANT: SPEAKER SONNY BELMONTE, HOUSE OF REPS (REPRESENTED BY JOY BELMONTE)

7. CUBAO EDSA: GP MARILEN LAGNITON: PHOTO JOURNALIST: EDWIN BACASMAS, CMMA HALL OF FAMER, CHRONICLED THREE FORMER PRESIDENTS

8. CUBAO WEST: GP JOEL SARMIENTO: MILITARY / PHYSICIAN: BGEN. ARIEL ZERRUDO

9. TIMOG: GP PETCHOY MORALES: INTERNATIONAL MUSICIAN: ARNEL PINEDA, ROTARY CLUB OF TIMOG MEMBER

10. LOYOLA HTS.: GP BETH CONSTANTINO: SOCIAL WORK: FR. JESS FERNANDEZ (SOCIETY OF JESUS)

11. NEW MANILA: GP NANETTE CASTELO-DAZA: TECHNICAL EDUCATION FIELD: TESDA NCR DIR. NENUCA TANGONAN

12. NEW MANILA EAST: GP BONG CRUZ: POLICE: CHIEF SUPT. SAMUEL PAGDILAO

13. (SAME ROTARY CLUB) SUPT. LEO FRANCISCO (FOR NEUTRALIZATION OF KIDNAP-FOR-RANSOM GROUPS) 14. NORTH EDSA: GP TANTE TAPURO: ENVIRONMENT: ENGR. EDITHA CABRERA, PETRON CORP.

15. EASTWOOD: GP GRACE VINARAO / GP CORA SISON: GOVERNMENT SERVICE: VICE MAYOR JOY BELMONTE 16. QC SOUTHEAST: GP PAT ALAPAN: TEACHING: MARY GRACE S. PELAGIO

17. (SAME ROTARY CLUB) GP JOHN SIMON: MEDICINE: LEONARDO ABOGADOR

Mga Mapagpanggap

2010-10-21T00:45:00.001-07:00

1. Hindi ako aswang. Hindi totoo ang mga akusasyon nila. Makaalis na nga. (At naiwan ang kalahating katawan)

2. Hindi ako palamura. Mga *@#%^*% nila!

3. Huwag na huwag mo 'kong aakusahang kriminal ha! Patayin kita e.

4. Hindi ako palaaway noh! Sinong matapang diyan?

5. Pasintabi po: Hindi totoo ang sinasabi nilang Bisaya ako. Wala silang ibidinsya.

6. Wala naman akong F and P problem e. Makaalis na nga't makapagpa-pish sfa.

7. Hindi ako bakla pare. Sabunutan kita diyan e!

8. Hindi ako pandak. Diyan na nga kayo! (Pagtayo, hanggang baywang lang pala)

Love

2010-10-16T20:38:00.000-07:00

Dear You,

You took my breath away with a smile. A moment that rarely came in someone’s lifetime.

Thanks for bringing me home in the afternoon or at night, for making sure that I am always safe. I found my home inside your heart.

Years of waiting didn’t matter, with even just a few minutes of seeing you.

Thanks for holding my hand when it was crowded at the church. At least at that point in time, you didn't want to lose me.

Thanks for introducing me to your mother and cousins, the very first time we went out on Christmas eve. We even danced and laughed our hearts out.

You changed me as you came and went away. But I love you for being you: Love.

You asked me about my dream, and I said it is of you. I dream of you coming into my life again, so we can share the happiness that God brings. I hope we’ll meet soon, because I believe we’re ready to handle and nurture it right. I think we’re capable of forever now. We no longer have to let go.

People have been asking what I am looking for. And I replied, just a good conversation. Maybe I am looking for humor and wit, for understanding, and an open mind. These would carry us through a lifetime and make us learn more about each other as the days go by.

I am still clueless where God will lead both of us to meet: At the office, at school, at parties or spiritual gatherings. But I am sure that it would be a very special day, because it is He who plans.

We just have to trust Him and be patient, for everything will fall into place in God’s time.

For A Change

2010-10-13T06:41:00.000-07:00

We’ve been hearing it since before: Be the change you want to see in the world. Well, they didn’t say it would be easy… But how about challenging yourself for the kind of change that is internal? Problems may remain: You still have to pay the bills, you have to deal with your broken heart, you still have to go to the office doing the same responsibilities… But having a renewed heart can make all the difference.

What kind of life are we living? And how do we perceive God? Do you feel that there is some sort of magical hands that guided all the things that happened? I do. And when I pray, I don’t think of Him anymore as existing out there. He is within.

It is still a struggle for me though. Struggle to control what seem to be automatic responses. Kailan ko nga ba masisimulang gawin ang mga bagay hindi dahil AKO ang tama kundi dahil ITO ang tama? Kaya ba nating isantabi ang personal at magsimulang isipin, paano kung nasa parehong sitwasyon ang Diyos, ano ang gagawin Niya?

We are created in His image and likeness. We know that. But we need to be reminded. If that is so, then we can retrieve qualities like unconditional love, patience, forgiveness, and so much more. My target for now is to get rid of bias, the frames that I put around people. I want to be more open. To avoid judging them now on the basis of how they acted in the past. And come to think of it: Do we really know others? Do we fully understand them?

Let’s keep the questions hanging.

The Television as an Information Revolution

2010-10-04T16:44:00.000-07:00

It took the world by storm. The television is actually about the age of my father or some years younger, but it seems like it has been here forever. So ubiquitous, so much taken as a given in every home.

As a culminating activity for our Media Literacy course, we were shown the information documentary that used Critical Theory and was narrated by Candice Bergen. For the Critical Theorist, truth is historically-produced. Reality is not out there, existing independently of human beings. It is created and mediated by the knower, favoring a class. It is shaped by economic, cultural, and social factors and accumulated over time. The job therefore is to reveal how this stock of knowledge came about. In making the information documentary, the writer and researcher weighed contending claims about the information revolution that was TV.

The opening showed us a fascinating application of television technology in relaying sporting activities, such as the car race. Several cameras, personnel, and mechanisms were at work. We saw the instantaneous television experience as a product of not just one, but multiple innovations that ultimately changed how we viewed our world (such as the use of the helicopter to relay signals). It enabled us to see things in different angles and distance. The CBS Sports telecast is a good example where the TV experience seemed to outdo the real experience, of being physically present at the venue and being able to watch the cars pass by. In Stuart Price’s words: TV pioneered visual experiences unique to the medium which allow us to see things in new ways. (p. 401, Media Studies)

The images are so convincing, with TV always cited as an example of realism. But the documentary showed us how modifications in the car race scenes were made to produce a thrilling viewing experience.

Contemplating further on the power of the image, the process was explained as having one dot scanning 500 lines. The process is unknown to the naked eye. TV scans reality, but it is not an innocent reproduction of reality. What we see is shaped by the institution. In our previous lecture, we encountered codification, where each medium has its own grammar, codifying reality in a certain way (quoted from McLuhan).

To borrow words from John Berger in “Ways of Seeing,” we only see what we look at; to look is an act of choice. What we view are the shots called by the director (presented as a male), from the many camera options he has. Candice Bergen said, it’s like a multitude of men having one brain led by a director who seemed to have three brains. It’s all clear: The limited form of sight. The image as a sight which has been recreated or reproduced.

Our lives are media-saturated. Simple technologies like the answering machine, something we usually take for granted, was just used in 1911. Cable TV came about in the late 40’s as a solution to a problem in terrain. Cable wires were cheaper means to transmit TV and radio signals. In 1980, CNN had its first broadcast.

We saw TV as having one central point of origin, and distributed widely. Brian Winston's Cultural Determinist account for television indicated 1884 as the date when a device for turning images into an electrical wave analogue using a selenium sensor was patented in Berlin . But nobody has thought of making money yet by bringing entertainment to the home. It was only in 1923 when the basic TV camera tube was patented.

The emergence of new technologies shaped how we do business. For example, the bulky video tape recorders gave rise to the vital role of the assistant camera man, who handles the cable and the heavy recorder as he follows the camera man. We don’t have them today in NBN-4. None that I am aware of. With the light, compact, hand-held cameras, they say that anybody can be a director today. (But experts would say instead: Anybody can be a bad director.) Diffusion of this technology gave rise to citizen journalism. Gradually, we see our primetime news being reshaped.

Stuart Price said that TV functions as a technology as a carrier of a variety of texts, and as a form which is received in a variety of ways and locations. (p. 360) With Tivo, which has not yet been thoroughly diffused here in the country, people no longer have to wait for their favorite programs. These programs will be waiting for them. With affordable China phones that have TV, we can watch shows while being stuck amidst the traffic jam. Almost gone were the days when people had to rush home from the office to catch their favourite soaps. Moreover, if one misses an episode or more of the Koreanovela in primetime, it can be watched in a marathon manner. Just look it over in the video store.

Towards the end, “Understanding Television” surfaced the problems of digital manipulation and harmful effects on the family. Either we are bombarded with images that we assume as real, or we don’t care if it’s real so long as we enjoyed viewing. The bottom line is, it becomes questionable when it involves deceit. Fighting over the remote control is already a problem among families since days of old. There is even the issue of control over the remote control. Often, it belongs to the father. It reinforced the idea that the home is a place of work for the female (household chores) and a place of entertainment for the male (relaxation after a day’s office work).

Irving Fang, in “A History of Mass Communication,” referred to the fifth information revolution as the creation of the Communication Toolshed Home. According to the author, it…

…evolved during the middle of the twentieth century, transforming

the home into the central location for receiving information and

entertainment, thanks to the telephone, broadcasting, recording,

improvements in print technologies, and cheap, universal mail

services. The century has, of course, been a period of unrelieved

political, cultural, and psychological turmoil and shifting. That the

media of communication have become inseparable from our lives

is a matter that has been written about in countless worried articles,

books, and research papers.

In our study of periodization among media forms, we saw that the pace of information revolution gained speed, with the recent ones having overlapped in the last two centuries. Today, concerns are raised on the information elite. For one, if economies depend upon information, what is there for parts of the globe which are not fully integrated into the stream? And if they are, will it successfully lead to the accomplishment of a monolithic worldview project? Are there really many choices, or are we trapped in the few hands owning and controlling the media?

Critical Theory poses arguments on power relations. Things did not happen just because they had to. And this is precisely why we always have to be in a questioning mood.

Condolence to the Family of Melody

2010-08-22T19:49:00.000-07:00

The car accident that caused the demise of 2009 Ms. International Melody Gersbach hit me as a shocking news item on the radio this morning. To think that we're of the same age (24) and I know that she has been helping other women in representing the Philippines abroad. Here, I even retrieved the script I made for Sheka when we covered last year at Araneta Colliseum.

Airing: 14 Sept 2009
Bb. Pilipinas, Fresh from the Bahamas (Sept 5, Araneta Coliseum Gazebo)

The She Ka Team was among the press that welcomed Bb. Pilipinas Universe Pamela Bianca Manalo after arriving from the pageant held at the Bahamas. A 23-year old Manila girl, she is an advertising graduate of the Assumption College and works as a flight attendant. She comes from a family of beauty queens, her older sister Kate Manalo-Hernandez being a former Ms. Philippines-World and an aunt, a former Ms. Philippines-International.

UPS 00:01:53.29 – 00:02:20.02
IN: I know that since day1, all of us are already winners
OUT: still Ms. Universe…I’m still happy with that (clapping)

To her, the Bahamian people are much like Filipinos who are hospitable. She’s a darling to the press, even during her stay in a foreign land. So candid, sharing how the Filipino community showed support when she arrived at the Bahamas.

UPS 00:05:55.24 – 00:06:15.08
IN: Pagdating ko dun
OUT: Mabuhay!

UPS 00:07:17.26 – 00:07:36.11
IN: Nakakataba lang ng puso
OUT: candles.

After Bahamas, she said, she’ll be missing the sleepless nights.

UPS 00:03:17.01 – 00:03:36.13
IN: Coz we always end up at 1 am
OUT: stand out all the time.

What are the chances for us to grab the elusive crown after Gloria Diaz and Margie Moran? The She Ka team also met with the ones next in line.

UPS 00:12:02.03 – 00:12:26.24
Melody Gersbach, Ms. International 2009
Marie-Ann Umali, Miss World 2009
IN: I would like to ask for your support (wearing violet)
OUT: prayers as well (wearing green / Ms. World)

For those who also dream of being a beauty queen like her, here’s her piece of advice.

UPS 00:04:32.24 – 00:04:38.17
“Remember that if you dream big and work hard, win or lose, you’ll be victorious.”

And she is right. Younger Ms. Venezuela brought home the crown but Bianca was able to show the world the free modern Filipina’s beauty, intelligence, and heart. From NBN-4, Congratulations for representing our country at the Ms. Universe pageant!

Sustaining Vigilance: From Media to The Public

2010-08-13T21:45:00.000-07:00

What good is democracy if the ordinary Filipino is weakened by pangs of hunger? If workers couldn’t find jobs to sustain their families? If people are dying due to sickness that was not even attempted to be cured? For me, this is where the important role of media comes in: To safeguard democratic processes and monitor governance. To make leaders constantly aware that someone is watching. To ensure for example, that corruption does not hinder the delivery of social services.

Professor Rachel Khan explored the role of the media in preserving democracy and fostering good governance through its efforts in exposing corruption. She viewed responsible journalism and press freedom as contributory to a heightened transparency. This is amidst corruption causing human rights violations, as funds are redirected instead of being utilized for our welfare. She delivered a SWOT (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats) Analysis of the Philippine situation.

Under Strengths would be the tried and tested power of media as seen in critical moments in Philippine history. When people had to say “enough is enough,” media is at the forefront of the struggle. Also, there are many skilled and dedicated journalists who stay in what they believe as a noble profession. They appreciate writing, seeing that their words mobilized people. Clearly, journalism is a profession that impact on society, a form of public service that is both challenging and exhilarating.

But the fact remains that journalism here is not that financially-rewarding. This financial instability also leads practitioners to resort to corruption (accepting bribes in exchange of favourable coverage). Covering events also threaten the safety of journalists, with assignments in hostile situations or in controversial stories. Prof. Khan discussed under Threats how killings continued due to impunity. She recalled how the Philippines was dubbed as the deadliest country for journalists in 2009 due to the Maguindanao massacre, referring to the January-December 2009 statistics of New York-based Committee for the Protection of Journalists. Though media is a potent pillar to fight corruption, we are still hoping that time will come when journalists would not be afraid to divulge the truth in their reports. That we would not anymore view journalists as easy targets and ask if a story, no matter how big, is worth dying for. While Prof. Khan saw sustained reports on policy issues or against corruption as Opportunities for heightened public pressure on government, the trauma brought about by images of dead journalists bear upon today’s practitioners engaged in anti-corruption advocacy.

The reactor, Dr. Grace Jamon, brought up the problem of our “Celebrity Culture,” making us run after celebrities rather than clarificatory issues. I may also relate the problematic of Filipinos’ “collective amnesia”. That is why news must be accurate not only in getting the details right but also in the sense that it presents the larger picture in a given issue and the implications to society. A report that gives background information, illustrates the context well, and explains consequences can empower communities. Knowing the problem is one thing. Embarking on solutions is another. I need not elaborate on the potentials of major newspapers and primetime news in defining national problems.

However, when it comes to investigative reports, there still exists a problem in reaching the audience. Considering that online journalism has a rising audience and that investigative programs are being produced / aired by the major commercial networks, it is still the “intellectual” group that pay close attention to these messages. I see this as contributory to what Prof. Jamon referred to as a “structural malaise”: The lack of capacity to choose good leaders. According to her, it is more of a problem of citizenship. What I see as a probable solution is the exertion of greater creativity, devoting more running time, and increasing the quantity of investigative content in our mainstream media. Our goal then, is to develop a taste in favor of this kind of reporting.

Speaking of governance, it would be imperative to look at the different beats and table some comparative descriptions based on the article “Life on the Beat” published in PJR Reports on July 2006.

BEAT / DESCRIPTION:
DOJ: Reporters spend most of the day in the press rooms waiting for memoranda and Supreme Court decisions. The DOJ holds press conferences and reporters rely on interviews with the Justice Secretary. Covering the DOJ is welcomed by reporters. Stories come effortlessly. Reporters need only wait for faxed stories. Others turn to prosecutors and fiscals.

Police: Reporters need to hop from one police headquarters to another to get stories.

Manila City Hall: Beat reporters roam City Hall and can get stories from the courts. Stories are guaranteed on Tuesday and Thursday when the City Council of Manila holds sessions. Copying another reporter’s story is a prevalent practice. The mayor chooses who to invite to press conferences because he wants only the good news to be written. Some broadsheet and tabloid reporters rely on press releases and photo releases from the Mayor’s office. Some words are just changed or paraphrased.

The House of Representatives: Reactionary. Reports are mostly based on the reactions of the congressmen on issues being taken up by the House. Besides the press releases issued via the Congress website by the Public Relations and Information Department, reporters may check the bills that have been filed or the resolutions at the index. There are press conferences, congressional inquiries, and committee hearings. They can cover sessions and do interviews. One can monitor print and broadcast news then contact committee secretaries. Common practice is to contact representatives of differing opinions in order to achieve balanced reports. Reporters are able to talk to legislators during a session and interview them near the exit or outside the session hall. Reporters, especially from broadcast, often cover events as a group. The House beat does not have a press corps.

Senate: The good life. A computer station is reserved for each reporter. Press releases, mostly arriving after lunch, come in the forms of press statements, news releases, photo releases, copies of resolutions, and interview transcripts. (Reporters do not have to jot down every word a senator says.) Breakfast, lunch and merienda are served in the press office free of charge. Free meals actually abound. Press briefings are held to get official statements from the senators. Reporters don’t have to go to every senator, the senators come to them.

I am highlighting here that the media as a pillar for good governance can only be as strong as its members. For instance in covering Congress, the level of research for every story depends on the reporter’s initiative. But sadly, we often see reports focusing on limited reactions to important issues. It depends in a great deal, I must say, on diligence.

Final Thoughts At The Close of The Colloquium

I came to reflect on possible implications for the government channel for which I am working. As there is an increasing need for Filipinos to gain better appreciation of the state of our nation and what can be done about it, I look forward to concrete action by the Communications Group to maximize the potential of NBN. Rather than papogi or mere paying tribute to what the government is doing, a different take would be engaging the public to participate in the changes they want to see in the Philippines. We can then start showing what communities are doing, in conjunction with the efforts of agencies like DSWD, NYC, and DOLE among others. To support the production of quality programs that will reach our target audience would of course require upgraded equipment, technologies, and skills.

Media being one of the eight pillars of good governance, the strength of the whole structure will also depend a lot on the interaction and degree of interdependence among these components. Then we come to view the system as greater than the sum of its parts. But more importantly, we realize that the media practitioner is in the first place a citizen who ought to be participating in the affairs and aspirations of his or her nation.

A Caveat on Ideological and Value Messages in Media

2010-08-13T21:41:00.000-07:00

From a series of reports last week that synthesized ideas about the audience, we then turned our attention to ideological and value messages that are contained in the media. Particularly, content of advertisements, websites that speak about the Filipina, and postcards depicting the Igorot were brought to the fore of discussion. Each segment might have made us frown on one or more aspects of the media: Being shaped and controlled by capitalism, misrepresentations of individuals and cultures, and the promotion of a limited view on certain groups. But at the same time, we are fully convinced that awareness is the first step in developing the degree of media literacy required for us to actively react and even proceed to the creation of countertexts.

Beyond Selling Things

When I took up Broadcast Advertising in my undergrad, we learned that effective advertisements talk directly to consumers. True enough, “ads must take into account not only the inherent qualities and attributes of the products they are trying to sell, but also the way in which they can make those properties mean something to us.” (Williamson) The process of translating statements from the world of things into a form that means something in terms of people (and being a certain kind of person) reminded me of a condom brand endorsed by Robin Padilla by saying that this product is used by the “tunay na lalake.” As if the virtue of responsibility and being a real man are fully satisfied by the usage of such. We can cite other examples where products are given a humanly symbolic “exchange-value” as wais na misis, samahang walang katulad, strong beer for real men, and the list goes on.

Creating a good brand is seen as an essential strategy for a business to succeed. It is important to note how the Filipino consumer is rated as the most brand-conscious in the world. May it be TVCs, print and outdoor ads, Filipinos are greatly exposed to commercial advertising. And this impact our decisions as we are also heavy buyers of consumer goods.

Proceeding from the idea that people are made to identify themselves with what they consume, I am reminded of hearing that Globe is used by the well-off (bosses, executives, professors) while Smart, Talk ‘n Text, and TM are used by maids, nannies, construction and utility men, and other blue-collared workers. Of course this is not necessarily true though low-income workers may subscribe to telecom companies that have affordable rates and several promos. And then came the dual sim.

Ads sell us ourselves. And we need those selves. Under Classical Marxism, it isn’t necessary for people to believe or feel that they are alienated. In the above-mentioned examples, consumption then becomes the means to belongingness. In the case of being brand-conscious, those who cannot afford original signature shirts for instance, usually resort to knock-offs or imitations. It may be said that one has also worn a “fake identity” in an attempt to be in or astig.

We might think that with our educational background and ideal orientation, we could be free from the strong influences of advertising. But I am trying to imagine how a female classmate or even I would react if a man proposes marriage without the diamond engagement ring.

Judith Williamson said we are made to feel that we can rise or fall n society through what we are able to buy. This can readily be seen in Filipino culture. For instance, when an average family used to earn just enough to eat thrice a day and then there came a momentary excess in income, they would resort to buying more food, new clothes, or inessential appliances. Many of us Filipinos love to display and show off. Despite the difficult times, at least, it gives comfort that we can buy things that “others” cannot afford.

An interesting concept in our discussion is that of common sense, the result of making an ideology seem normal through what Althusser referred to as ideological state apparatuses reproducing it in everyday communication activities. An example would be the belief that getting a college degree is the key to success. This is however being challenged now as many college degree holders are struggling to find jobs.

Finally, the author reminded us that not only advertising but other kinds of programming may act in the same way. They “may seem less ideological, but they are every bit as much so.” Apart from the outright use of celebrities as endorsers, we must also be aware of the ongoing process of creating and protecting images of personalities so that we can keep on identifying with them, linking them to traits that they may not actually possess.

I Am A Filipina

In the discussion of “The E-mail Order Bride as Postcolonial Other,” we conceived the web as a hegemonic space. Hence, meanings are constantly negotiated. Winning in this process does not mean that we can cease in our efforts but instead, we must keep on re-winning our position. It is bothersome that in this day and age, the images of the Filipina as docile, subservient, and damsel in distress still prevail.

And so I tried to recall television programs that were geared towards women empowerment. Q-TV aired Proud to be Filipina, showcasing successes of Filipinas achieved locally and abroad. NBN airs She Ka, showing the different sides of the modern-day Filipina (accomplished in various careers, artistic, empowering through advocacy, successful in business). We must admit that efforts should be sustained and increased to reach more audiences. Moreover, sending the message across should not make successful and empowered Filipinas appear as the exception rather than the typical.

It is greatly alarming that aside from Filipinas being bought online, Filipino children are in-demand for trafficking. The authorities must already come up with an effective safeguard to limit the technology’s potential as a commercial tool… Treating children, especially from Third World countries, as commodities.

Postcards… And More

We may not be buying and sending those postcards anymore in this era of e-mail and other forms of instant messaging, but there is in fact a greater challenge of determining the accuracy of images circulated in the media. Who knows? That JPEG image in one of our tourism websites might just be one of those misleading, staged, or fabricated images of our people, treasures, and places.

As a Filipina who grew up here in Manila, this study by Anna Christie V. Torres inspired me to learn more about our indigenous groups and national heritage. Mahirap maging dayuhan sa sariling bayan. Who else is there to correct misrepresentations if even Filipinos themselves are not able to tell what is misrepresented? Moreover, we might be unconsciously contributing to the circulation of these images!

Photography has become so much a part of life that it may be difficult to imagine our society without it. Photography, as we can observe wherever we go, is the most visible and dominant element of publicity. A picture paints a thousand words, as the adage goes. But with techniques for photo manipulation, we should all be taking a closer look at images to check on their accuracy or to verify if these are just promoting a limited form of seeing, to borrow a phrase from John Berger, author of the 1977 publication titled Ways of Seeing.

Before Sleeping Tonight

Knowing these things is one thing. To act on these misleading messages is another. As analytical and concerned individuals, it all starts with saying “Mali ‘yan!” or “Hindi dapat ganyan” when we are confronted by even the well-crafted but ill-intended messages that influence opinion or that sell something.

Immediate action on my part entails a conscious, active, and educated selection of images to be used as video support especially for sensitive features or issues. Due to limited resources in the government network, there are frequent instances when videos are being re-used or “recycled” many times. Graphics or texts could be better than putting images that would only confuse or mislead our viewers.

Turning Down Things

2010-07-23T06:21:00.000-07:00

I turned down something I love doing, and knew it was a good decision.

I embrace the free time that I now have for myself. We often block dates on the calendar for "important things" but spending some time alone is rarely scheduled. For the simple reason that my mind and body have to rest too, again, it was the right decision made.

But this does not mean that my workload has been lessened in the office, as I am now handling three days of Sheka and the Friday TMS. But I am just appreciating the balance I'm having between studies, leisure, and job as a writer. And it has been two years!

But above all, I am also happy because of the recollection last Saturday and confession on Sunday. Faith is actually the most important aspect of our being that needs nourishment, but is also often first to suffer when we "rarely have the time." For me, without it, everything becomes dry. I went to meditation 'coz we often KNOW but need to be reminded.

Things of God or things of man? Make time for it.

Palpitation 2010

2010-07-10T05:10:00.000-07:00

I experienced recurring palpitation that started last Friday and lasted for a week. I already had this last year, but did not follow the company doctor’s advice to have the TSH and FT4 tests. But I thought it’ll be worth doing this time.

Results revealed that I’m within the normal values. I also did not anticipate positive results for thyroid illness since I always eat iodine-rich food. So it still puzzles me… What caused the three strong heartbeats that occurred from time to time? Irregular heartbeats that you won’t miss despite loud noise in the background.

The theory of the OB van crew? Kulang lang daw sa kisspirin at yacapsule. I warned them last Monday (dahil nagpa-palpitate din ako habang live ang sheka) na tumahimik muna kung ayaw nilang mabasagan ng bungo! Kaya nagsumbong na lang sa EP ko… War-freak ho o! By the way, sinilip ko ang first aid kit nila. Tapes pala ang laman!

Isa pang theory from Issa Litton, anxiety attack. Baka kailangan ng pampakalma. Pero sabi ko naman, kahit relaxed at nakahiga na ‘ko, umaatake pa rin siya. Ano nga kaya?

Is it true that there are things, no matter how petty, that bother me? Is it taking a toll on my health though I’m not consciously worrying?

O baka naman sadyang napaparami lang ang soda recently? Matagal-tagal na rin kasi akong ‘di umiinom ng softdrinks nang biglang mag-birthday si Ma’am Viz at ‘di na nakapagpigil. At baka kailangan na rin itigil ang kalahating tasang kape tuwing umaga. OA!

Hanggang dito na lang. Just felt it’s worth taking note of. Whatever it is, maybe the best way to deal with it is to stop worrying. Anyway, nawala na rin naman ever since I started having oats for breakfast. Kaya ang theory ko, mataas lang ang cholesterol.

Anger Management

2010-06-22T10:13:00.000-07:00

Kaysa sayangin ang lakas sa pag-iisip kung tama ang mga naging desisyon sa buhay, kaysa magngitngit sa pagsulat ng script, bakit hindi na lang makipagtawanan sa mga ka-opisinang mukhang mangangagat na rin kapag kinalabit?

Balikan ang mga jokes na bagaman luma na, ay hindi mo pa rin mapipigilang tumawa kapag narinig. Lalo na kapag sina Brownie, Bruno, at Beauty ang nag-deliver.

1. Maghiwalay na tayo Beauty! Maghati na tayo ng mga anak. Kukunin ko ang lahat ng guwapo't magaganda.
Beauty: Ay sos! Kinuha pa ang hindi kanya!

2. Pare 1: Balita ko pare may bading daw sa barkadahan natin. Gusto mo bang malaman kung sinO?
Pare 2: Oo naman pare. Sino?
Pare 1: Kiss muna.
(Da bes kung APO Hiking Society ang magde-deliver)

3. Pasyente: Doc, ayokong magpabunot ng ngipin. Takot ako e!
Dentista: Ganun ba? Sige, etong pampatapang. Inumin mo.
Makaraan ang ilang sandali...
Dentista: O, matapang ka na ba?
Pasyente: Oo doc! Sinuman ang gumalaw ng ngipin ko, basag ang bungo niya sa 'kin!

4. Customer: Miss, miss! Bakit may langaw ang lugaw ko?
Miss: Sos! Sa halagang limang piso, anong gusto mo, manok?

At talagang naisingit ko ang blog na 'to kahit pressured na pressured na dito sa opisina. Hala, back to work.

How I Spent My 24th Birthday

2010-06-12T23:00:00.000-07:00

1. Arena Fitness session with Diwa and trainor Hazel
2. Accompanying mom to Fitness First
3. Soothing my cravings: Marina seafood platter for the family dinner
4. Dad buys me a gift: A Hua Mulan comb made of ox horn. Many benefits are associated with using combs made of natural materials, according to Chinese traditional medicine such as: Minimizing hair fall and breakage with less friction, promoting circulation and release of hair’s natural oil making our hair grow faster, reducing stress, relieving headache, and minimizing sprouting of gray hair. Wooden and horn combs are said to be representing smooth relationships and sensitivity to others. It is widely believed that giving your loved-ones this present is a way of saying you wish them success in endeavors, happiness, good health and harmonious family relationship.
5. 1st movie viewed in an IMax Theater: Shrek. With an important lesson on valuing what you have in the present. =)

Sore Throat

2010-06-06T18:24:00.000-07:00

I've never had sore throat as severe and recurring as my last. Mahirap nang ngumuya dahil abot-tenga ang sakit. So let me share with you remedies that helped me surpass this ordeal.

For the first wave:Strepsils, Dequadin, Salt gargle, Lagundi tea, Amoxicillin. Got well for a while, then attended a party until...

The second wave:
1. Betadine gargle
2. More consistent dose of Amoxicillin
3. Sugarcane juice
4. Difflam
5. Biogesic
6. Lagundi tea
7. Weekend rest

My resolutions:
1. Boses ang puhunan, kaya mas dapat alagaan. Hindi na iinom ng malalamig.
2. Magpipigil na sa sobrang pagtawa.
3. Hindi na sisigaw.
4. Sapat na pahinga.
5. Tatanggi na sa libreng ice cream
6. 'Di na kakausapin ang mga taong 'di dapat kausapin. Katahimikan ang susi sa lubusang paggaling.

Enchanted Weekend

2010-05-22T09:25:00.000-07:00

I can partly remember having gone to Enchanted Kingdom for the first time in 2004 or 2005. We arrived at nighttime and only experienced Realto and the rapids. Sobrang bitin, kaya sobrang enjoy naman that we had the whole day today to maximize our visit to Sta. Rosa. Jane, Bryan, and I met at about 9 am. Sumakay sa van terminal beside Farmers Cubao (Php 70 fare) at bumaba sa Walter Mart, Sta. Rosa where we had lunch first, then rode the trike to EK for Php 8. Arrived at 1pm and experienced the rides in this sequence:

1. Flying fiesta
2. Wheel of Fate
3. Space Shuttle Part 1 (Eyes opened occassionally) - Bandang hapon, kaya medyo bilad pa sa araw. Maikli ang pila, kaya halos wala rin kaming preview period para maihanda ko man lang ang sarili para sa isang first time
4. Jungle Log Jam
5. Anchors Away
6. Roller Skaters
7. Rio Grande Rapids, kung saan ako ang pinaka-lugi dahil natapat sa falls at laging humaharap sa malalaking alon
8. Space Shuttle Part 2 (Eyes opened all the way) - Gabi na, kaya maganda ang lights at masarap nang dumilat. Ika nga ni Bryan kapag paatras na ang motion, parang nire-rewind ang buhay mo. Nalaman ko ring mas nakakatakot pala 'pag nakapikit. Kaya c'mon! Face your fears!

Lesson of the day: Kailangan daw for government employees, at least apat kayo to avail the 20% discount. Buti pa si Bryan, may student discount, kahit mas mukha naman kaming estudyante sa kanya!

Pahiyas 2010

2010-05-15T23:38:00.000-07:00

It was in college when I last visited Lucban, Quzon for my Art Studies class. It was a totally different experience when I went back there yesterday, with Tita Rose, Bryan, Kuya Noel, Ate Nelia, and Kuya Ding.

When we started roaming the streets, Bryan and I had a heart-to-heart discussion upon seeing Pekto's Bakery:

Me: Anong pagkakaiba ng epektos sa kontrabando?
Bry: 'Yung epektos, tools. Ang Kontrabando, kasama na ang epektos at 'yung kailangang i-deliver. Kadalasan, droga.

Whether this is accurate or not, we didn't care anymore. Our attention shifted to the beautifully-decorated houses, none of them missed the leaf-shaped Kiping made of rice.

Kuya Noel already has a Tweety Bird tatoo and we saw him approaching a tattooing area. Kaya sinita ko: "Magpapa-tato ka na naman? Wala kang kadala-dala..."

Of course, we couldn't help but mix business with pleasure, looking at the goods by the roadside. So our editor exclaimed: "Hirap sa inyong mga bata, dapat laging may kasamang matatanda! Pagpapaluin ko kayo e!" I replied with glee, "E 'di ba po mahirap din daw lumakad nang may kasamang matanda?"

And since it's a town fiesta, I had three lunches! First at the ground floor of Dealo's Bakeshop located at La Dona Ana hall, then the extravagant home of Mr. Zaldy Veluz, and finally at the second floor of La Dona Ana where the diplomats were gathered. Hindi nawala ang Habhab, kakaibang Adobong manok, at halu-halo.

After the last superb lunch, we were still able to go around and shop at the Lucban Tiangge. Got a green bag na mukha raw 500 pero nakuha ko ng 360.=)

Pauwi naman, adventure pa rin. Instead of getting stuck in the SLEX traffic, mabuti na lang at may VIP kaming nasundan. Sobrang nakatulong!

And I was still able to attend Jaja's birthday which she celebrated in her boutique, and afterwhich, I went to Starbucks Timog to meet with my long lost friend. Went home at twelve.

May 10 Scenario

2010-05-10T15:53:00.000-07:00

The holding room can't hold it anymore.

Room 5, Precinct No. 180A, No.31 Cluster 34. Number 209.

First thing I had to do upon arrival at the covered court of Project 6 Elementary School was to get my precinct number from a poll watcher. Next: A slow-moving long queue of those getting their numbers. Then waited to be called while several others went out to eat or take a shower. At the gym, they usually call thirty to forty persons per batch. And being called is just the beginning of another long wait. False alarm, pinaakyat na sa presinto pero marami pa palang nakapila doon. At number 170, I decided to lean on the wall and take a nap.

Arrived at 9:25 am and done by 1:25 pm. I was given a folder, a marker, and ballot. Quickly accomplished mine with a kodigo. Was assisted in feeding my ballot into the PCOS machine. Put a thumbmark in the election day computerized registration, at parang may galit ang official dahil mas maraming indelible ink pa ang nailagay sa hintuturo ko kaysa sa tintang nagamit ko sa pag-shade ng ovals.

Habang walang eleksyon, saan kaya gagamitin ang PCOS? Pang-check ng test papers? Let me do a little research here.

All the Single Ladies

2010-05-08T12:31:00.000-07:00

I’m thinking there should be monthsaries to celebrate singlehood too. ‘Coz it’s one joyful journey to knowing and appreciating oneself more.

Last night, Jane and I reverted to our Friday rendezvous. Staple activities like walking from NBN to Mcdo as a warm-up, shopping, basketball, and dining with our newfound hobbies: Driving and walking in dark allies. Without any plans, and getting surprised with myself for staying AWAKE despite One Morning, we stayed at the garden of Trinoma until 12 midnight. My first time to do so.

Fitting clothes gave rise to punchlines like:
Hiraman, hati sa bayaran.
Una siyang naging akin, mula sa mannequin.
Testing n’yo po ma’am. I-fit n’yo.
(Tumatagal sa fitting room) Jane, pakiabot nga ang sabon!
Ang pagkilatis ng tela, dapat may kasamang pagkagat.
(Makaraang hawakan nang matagal ang blouse at pag-iwan dito para mag-withdraw) Napapaisip na ‘ko kung bibilhin ko pa ‘yung blouse. Nabitawan ko na e. Gusto mo ba siya? Magiging masaya ko ‘kung makikita kong isusuot mo’ yon.
Parang ang gaganda ng mga damit ngayon. O gumaganda lang lahat 'pag kasama kita?

But let’s see if Jane can be true to her words. May panata raw siyang kung hindi pa magkaka-BF at age 23, hindi na siya magbo-boyfriend. Adding to that, kung hindi pa siya married by 25, hindi na raw siya mag-aasawa.

I remember telling Bryan that I hope to have a 5-year relationship before getting married. And my ideal marrying age is 28. If that is so, he’s late!

But who cares about these anyway? Let’s just enjoy the ride, wait, and see.

Seashells by the Seashore

2010-05-02T08:19:00.000-07:00

Ang paghahanap ng partner sa buhay ay parang pagpili sa dalampasigan. Mahirap makakita ng buo. Ng perfect, ika nga ni Tita Rose. Sabi pa niya nang makapulot ako ng basag, "Iwan mo na lang diyan! Marami ka pang ibang makikita." Pero marami akong nakolekta, at mahirap din namang mag-let go ng iba kahit kailangan na dahil makakabigat lang sa biyahe.

Basketball

2010-04-24T12:24:00.000-07:00

The Plan: I'm meeting with RCY friends, Friday, 7:30 pm. Trying out Wicked Kitchen for the first time.

But just to kill time and get sporty somehow, Jane and I went to Timezone for our ultimate sport... Basketball! And what's more? We're planning to make it a regular activity, to the point of refusing backpack sked every Friday and cancelling other commitments! We also plan to prepare our:
- Gym bags
- Knee pads
- Bath towels
- Coleman / Sports Drink in big bottles
- Jersey
- Reloaded Timezone cards

And we could just imagine wiping the sweat on our foreheads and then making a swipe! Hahaha. Guess Planet Sports and Toby will be our best friends.

And after rounds of Basketball and exasperated underarms, we decided to go to the ladies section for shoe shopping. Ang gaganda ng styles ngayon sa Landmark at ang mumura pa! Unlike before that the cheapest I could find was 700. And so I bought yellow studded flats that are so comfy for less than 500.

8:30 na! Rode the MRT straight to our meeting place. Russ introduced his model for career assessment and I wondered if he himself has finalized the path that he'll be taking in the next 5 years. We then went to Wicked Kitchen where desserts are named after the seven mortal sins.

And it didn't just end there. At 12 midnight, we were seated at Havana KTV. We tried our best in singing, but scores only reached 99. The song that got us a hundred was... "Rape Me." Had to go after that.

Shoes Ko Po!

2010-04-20T20:19:00.000-07:00

Ok nga ang design, presyo, at kulay, hindi naman nasasalo ang buong sakong ko.
Ok ang kulay, style, at taas... nakakaputi pa ng paa, puti naman ang sinulid at pangit 'pag naputikan.
Ok ang material, comfort, at presyo, boring naman ang kulay!
Ok nga ang gaan at design... Halos natagpuan ko na siya! Pero closing time na.
Hay.

Ang Buong Pamilya

2010-04-11T06:31:00.000-07:00

Alam n’yo bang linggo-linggo ay namamasyal kami ng “buong pamilya”? At ‘yan ay binubuo ni nanay, tatay, at ako. Hehe… Ang laki ng pamilya! Kaya hindi ganoon kahirap na manlibre sa buong pamilya. At kahit alanganing oras ng gabi, madalas pa ring lumabas ang buong pamilya. At kung nasa bahay man, sa mga programa ng NBN nakatutok ang buong pamilya. Napakalaking tulong sa pagpapataas ng viewership, sabi ng isang EP.

Sa mall kung minsan, nagdududa na ako kung si tatay ay tatay talaga, o nanay? Dahil napapalingon at napapatigil siya sa mga magagandang blouse at ladies’ shoes. Nang aking sitahin depensa niya, mahirap magkaroon ng kaisa-isang anak na babae. Hard core papa’s girl hanggang sa paglaki! At ang hinahanap kong Fanny Serrano eyelash curler, siya rin ang nakatagpo!

At maging sa oras na nagtungo ang “buong pamilya” sa palikuran, muntik na siyang sumama sa amin sa pang-babae.

Picks This Season

2010-04-04T06:13:00.000-07:00

Summer is about having fun, and yes it's the perfect time to turn one's fashionista button on! Recently, I've been surrounding myself with lifestyle magazines and shopping for clothes and new additions to my makeup kit. It's just this time of year really, since rarely do I actively look for kikay stuff. Usually, we just get the freebies from doing fashion features like the complete Avon kit, mags, and designer items. It's either I give them away or I'm somehow forced to use some. But now at 23, it seems that I'm becoming more appreciative of these things.

It started with a purchase of shimmer cubes (I love the palette!) and face mist (spray-on moisturizer) from the Body Shop. I've also started going "for an element of surprise with pastel eye colors that don't overwhelm but articulate the eye."

And tonight, I discovered a relatively new boutique in our area: Jhajing's Fashion Accessories (www.jhajing.multiply.com). She got Jaciendera pieces which Maricar Reyes wore in the March issue of Preview. I got a cute summer dress for just Php 570! Really chic, affordable finds.

Visita Iglesia

2010-04-02T22:22:00.000-07:00

This Holy Week, we decided to stay here in Manila. Yesterday, Good Friday, our family was able to visit the record-breaking fourteen churches. In previous years, we only had a range of 7 to 10.

1. Our Lady of Consolation (Recoletos)
2. San Isidro Labrador
3. Our Lady of Mt. Carmel (Project 6)
4. Our Lady of Hope (Pag-Asa)
5. Sta. Rita (Philam Homes)
6. Lourdes
7. Sta. Teresita
8. Sta. Perpetua (D. Tuazon)
9. Sto. Domingo
10. UST
11. Manila Cathedral
12. Malate Church
13. San Agustin
14. Baclaran

In the country, we observe this tradition of Visita Iglesia or church visits patterned after the old practice of visiting seven churches in Rome. Some expand it to include fourteen churches and say the Stations of the Cross, with one station in each church.

Tomorrow's the most important occassion: Easter Sunday! Afterwhich, I am looking forward to a new life in the office: More enthusiastic people, improved work relations.

Unexpected This Week

2010-03-25T04:49:00.000-07:00

1. Monday: Being told by VEB to cover the 4th ASEAN Festival of Arts at Clark, Pampanga. Asked her who's going to be my host for the one-hour program. Part 2 Unexpected: Being told to wear Filipiniana and have my makeup done before pull out.

2. Wednesday: Having a heart-to-heart talk with Doc Pat. And being told: "I think you made the right decision. Viz and I see great potential in you... Love yourself first. Be open to new horizons."

3. Thursday: Earthquake.

4. Thursday:Was already carrying my bag and shutting down all computers until a text came in. Ilang minuto pa at..."Para sa National Broadcasting Network, MJ Conti...nag-uulat...nang biglaan!" Funny, funny experience. At first time kong mag-edit sa News. Samu't saring amoy ang dumating. Minsan popcorn, paputok... at sabi ng editor buti raw 'di ko naabutan ang amoy daga. Mukhang masaya naman ang buhay doon. I was even offered some prunes, which made me rush to the toilet as I arrived home.

5. Hearing from Katrina Halili: "Mas natututukan ko ang sarili ko, 'yung trabaho ko, kaya pinili kong maging single" just when I needed to hear this.

Walang Tayuan

2010-03-11T20:00:00.000-08:00

Tiyak namang naka-engkuwentro ka na ng editor na ayaw magpasingit kahit magda-dubb ka lang ng video support mula sa USB. Ganito ang mga kaparaanan nila:

• Nagbabaka-sakaling manananghalian siya at makakaporma ka na? Huwag ka! Magpapa-deliver ‘yan sa editing room. Susubo gamit ang kaliwang kamay habang ang kanan ay nasa mouse! Ang tibay!!!
• Magsi-CR? Hahatakin niya ang mouse sa port. Ops ops ops… Babalik pa ‘yan dahil nakalimutan niyang baunin ang keyboard.

Ganyan kapag non-linear editing. Pero nagkakamali ka kung iniisip mong walang paraan kapag analog. ‘Di na kailangang dalhin ang switcher. Aalisin na lang ang turnilyo ng kambyo para ‘di maka-fade in ang magtatangkang sumingit.

Pero sa kabila ng lahat, may magagawa ang ordinaryong mamamayan:
• Sabihan ang editor ng “Tayo ka sandali. May nalaglag, sisilipin ko lang.” Pasimpleng hatakin ang upuan para bumalentong sa muli niyang pag-upo.
• Desperado? Sabihin: “Di ka ba talaga tatayo? Uupuan kita!”

Sa audio booth ayon kay Jane, may metodo rin para walang ibang makagamit. Baunin ang mikropono.

Things You Can Do To Pretend You're Busy

2010-03-10T02:07:00.000-08:00

For prod people, here are some ways to pretend you're busy while remaining productive. Baka ikatuwa pa ng mga EP n'yo.

1. Gather TOAs and label properly. You will need: Marker, scratch papers, masking tape, and scissors. Full rewind too.

2. After that, you can rechannel your energy from Betacams to Mini DVs. Full rewind. Put blank stickers for future use.

3. Last resort? Go to the editing room. Time code videos that are not yours! ;o)

And those are my leisure tips for today. Stay tuned! Hahaha

Guide Questions

2010-02-23T03:34:00.000-08:00

For starters, nakasanayan nang isama ang tanong na "Paano kayo nagsimula" sa lahat ng restaurant na fini-feature namin sa She Ka. So, for a change, consider the following guide questions:

1. Gumagana po ba ang fire extinguisher n'yo? Marunong po ba kayong gumamit niyan? Sige nga... (Demo portion!)
2. 'Di po ba kayo nauubusan ng straw dito? Puwede po ba hugasan tutal dulo lang ang nagamit? (At may headwriter pang nagmungkahing punas na lang)
3. Ilang lasenggo na po ang nagtaob ng mesa rito?
4. Ilang butiki po ang dumaraan sa inyong pader? Ilan na ang naghabulan at nagkasakitan? Ilan ang nalaglag na?
5. (Sa customer) Paano ang tamang paghuhugas ng kamay?

Ito ang resulta ng paghihintay namin ni Bryan Bruno Tul-U (Kailangan talaga buo ang attribution) sa guest interviewee. At may naisip na rin akong intro sa VTR:

VO: Ito ang mga tipo ng lugar kung saan nagtataob ng mesa ang mga galit na lasenggo. Aming nakapanayam ang may-ari...

At ang closing:
VO: At ang ibang basagulerong namulat sa kanilang ginawa... dinaraan na lang sa paghuhugas-kamay. Ito po si MJ Conti, nag-uulat mula rito sa Cubao.

Pero huwag ka... Nang dumating ang interviewee, balik-seryoso kaming lahat sa trabaho na parang walang nangyari.

It happens.

2010-02-12T19:53:00.000-08:00

And it happened to me. I know the questions that he might be asking, the pain that he might experience, the excuses that I might be giving. It's a weird feeling, to have both happiness for finding the one, and the preparedness to say goodbye to someone whom you still care about.

I know because I've been there at the losing end. And I don't want him to lose this time. But I know I needed this break... after the castle has been built and after talks about forever. How could this happen to me?

I can easily say that it's no longer of my control. But why did I entertain? He did everything for me and is willing to do so much more, how can I let go?

And I can't confide with a best friend because I'm fully aware of how selfish it could get.

But after all, I'm willing to assume the character I'm not, at this very important point in time.

I Heart NBN

2010-01-24T07:09:00.000-08:00

Sa pagliligpit ko ng mga lumang gamit, nakita ko ang internship notebook (June 2007). Nakakatuwang balikan kung paano ako unang na-expose sa NBN, ang tinaguriang "best trainer among networks." Nabasa ko sa notebook ang mga pangalan ng mga una kong nakilala: Tita Ems (DIY segment / ASK), Ate Elena, Mang Lucas, Ate Malou (Medical City backpack), Ate Mac (Youth Voice), Ate Besi (Pilipinas Ngayon Na), Kuya Benson, Ms. EK, at Sir Jojo.

It is a humbling experience to read my notepad once again, reminding me that NBN is where I made my baby steps. In July of this year, it's gonna be my second year as their writer. I wish to give back to the company that reared me, despite its shortcomings that led to the resignation of my coworkers. As I told Juvy in an e-mail, I am among the hopefuls that NBN will be able to soar through the airwaves just like before (the golden years!). I want to contribute towards this change and I look forward to still being part of that success when the right time comes. Let's change the mentality "na wala namang nanonood." Where in fact, meron naman lalo na sa mga probinsya kung saan kailangang kailangan ang impormasyon. Sa ibang bansa, nakakatutok na rin ang mga kababayan natin through www.nbni.tv at sabi nila, sa Dish Network.

The station has been running plugs for vacancies. It says something like "Work in the company where most of the biggest in the industry started." I just pray that once these positions have been filled up, talents will not only see the company as a training ground but a place where they can grow and devote years of service.

With the passing away of the most-loved Press Sec Cerge Remonde, may those left behind continue to work for progress and improvement of all departments. May the rehabilitation of the transmitter, hiring of new talents, upgrade of equipment, and most especially the coming elections bring about positive change in NBN.

Let's wait and see.

Second Visit at Figaro with a SmartConcept Card

2010-01-16T07:02:00.000-08:00

Three cups and two snacks for the price of one drink! I just paid Php 154 for the following:

Cafe Au Lait
Brewed Coffee
White Chocolote Mocha
Choco Oatmeal
Tuna Pie

More visits coming up to make the most of the coupons. Until May 31, 2010.

Circle of Fun

2010-01-04T06:14:00.000-08:00

Makalaglag-pustisong saya. Iyan ang tampok sa Circle of Fun kung saan dumagsa ang ating mga kababayan nitong kapaskuhan. Sa aming curiosity, nagtungo rin kami nina inay at itay kahapon, Linggo.

Sabi ng nanay ko, subok lang. Kahit maglaan lang ng isang oras to know what's the fuss all about. Sa kabila ng puna na mayroon pa ring madidilim na bahagi sa parke, para sa 'kin, maganda ang proyektong ito dahil nababago ang dating masamang imahe ng Quezon City Circle. Agad na maiisip ang mga nababagansya. 'Yung tipong aalingawngaw ang sirena ng kapulisan at may mga dadamputing tambay.

Narito ang tatlong rides na pampamilya at aming nasubukan:

1. Magic Swing. Akala mo, 'di credible ang mga hiyaw habang nanonood ka sa ibaba. Pero huwag ka. Maya-maya... WAAAHHHH! Ito 'yung umaandar pahalang habang umiikot din sa axis. Pakiwari mo, parang lalampas lang! (50 pesos) Sa 'di kalayuan, may natanaw akong lalake na nagpapalit ng pang-itaas. Nang topless na, sinumbong ko kay daddy na siya namang nagsabi ng... "In fairness ha..." Hala!
2. Scramble. Napasigaw ako ng "Ayoko, ayoko!" Mas kilala bilang Octopus. (30 pesos.)
3. Sea Dragon. Na-underestimate na naman ni daddy: "Ah wala, ugoy-ugoy lang 'to." Pero ilang minuto pa ay may maririnig ka nang "NYAY!!!" Natatawa na lang ang nanay ko sa katabing mama na ubod ng ingay at may punto pa. "Ala eh, parang hinuhugot laang ang bituka!" (50 pesos)

Si daddy raw, high school pa nang huling makasakay sa roller coaster. Kaya kanina nang muli naming binaybay ang Elliptical Road ay mistulang nag-aayang mag-roller coaster after a day's work! Baka isang araw ay magawa nga namin ito. Magpapark, isang ride, at lalabas din agad!

Sa nakaraang holidays, may isa pa kaming nakahiligan: Ang mga lobo na inilalako sa halagang 40 hanggang 60 pesos bawat isa. Ang kagandahan, maaaring hipan muli ang mga lobo para ma-revive ang aming mga munting kaibigan.

Yearend Post

2009-12-29T19:12:00.000-08:00

2009 has been a relatively difficult year not just for me, but to most Filipinos as we faced the wrath of nature in October. I am hoping that in 2010, all of those affected would have fully recovered especially the small entrepreneurs who lost much at this time.

But on the individual level, I remember having experienced these things/challenges in 2009, which led to personal and professional growth:

Being part of the ASEAN Quiz.
Being assigned to One Morning Cafe, At Your Service, Ulat sa Bayan: Patunay ng Mamamayan, and Sagip Bayan.
Working with the DOH and Ate Regine as my producer.
Classmates and relatives going abroad for greener pastures.
Resignation of co-workers who are very close to me.
Celebrating our first anniversary.
Being one of the organizers and hosting the 1st Fernandez Reunion.

I've always shared about this fear of the future since I was a child. But as time goes by and as I pass through the obstacles with flying colors, I feel that I've grown with confidence to face future hurdles.

With the grace of God, all things can be done.

More Food Conquests

2009-12-18T19:26:00.000-08:00

I always encourage mom and dad to try out something new on weekends. I recommended the adobo ravioli at Sugarhouse, Salmon Sashimi, seafoods on smokeless grill, and fruit tarts at Yakimix.

Figaro Treats

2009-12-06T07:40:00.000-08:00

My family just got a superb lunch from Figaro:
Dory Provencal w/ Green Salad and Carbonara
Tuscan Chik w/ Pasta Chorizo
Al Tonno (Pasta)
Refillable Iced Coffee
Iced Tea

For just Php 398! Thanks to my dad's Smart Concept Card which he purchased from our landlady. Looking forward to availing the rest of the promos indicated in the coupons like free brewed coffee and other food items. Super sulit.

New TV Show

2009-11-10T02:02:00.000-08:00

Watch the newest health program on-air: The Doctor Is In! Mondays and Thursdays from 9:15 - 10:00 pm (That's after the Lotto draw) and Saturdays from 7:00 - 7:30 pm over NBN-4. Hosted by Health Sec. Francisco Duque and Kathy San Gabriel (your registered nurse on TV and veteran broadcaster). Learn from the segments Medical Bulletin, i-DOH-lo, and ToDOH Galing Health Tips.

Buying Swimwear in October

2009-10-25T07:47:00.000-07:00

Yes, this is the ideal time of the year to go bathing suit-shopping. Mom and I just picked these cheap finds at Trinoma and The Block this weekend:

Wet Shop, P100, previously at P1,300
Wet Shop, P100, previously at P1,300
Sassa, P350, previously at P700

Dad says...

2009-09-17T17:55:00.000-07:00

There's always something to gain from it.

I am just starting my career so I must learn to be open to new experiences. Yeah, I realized how hard it is to keep a positive attitude amidst a stressful work environment. You hear people complaining, demanding for compensation for additional work rendered... Whew! Yet, I must always strive to perform tasks with a smile. Starting today, I'll let work be my prayer. I may just be a "talent" but I'm proud to be one. I am proud of being able to carry on.

Belting Out

2009-09-15T22:11:00.000-07:00

I remember Week 1 of my job. It all started from a segment that airs every Monday and Friday. Then came two one-hour programs. Gradually, I adapted and thought every now and then that it’ll be impossible if something would be added on. I always thought that my current workload is already a struggle for me to accept more tasks. But I’ve proven myself wrong ‘coz I eventually learned that there would always be a room for adjustment. For instance when I was assigned another program, I seldom join the team in shooting outside, like for fashion shows and restaurant openings (except on weekends). I just write spiels for a taping or preview the tapes and write my VTR features. But of course, something is sacrificed. It’s a different script if I were actually there to witness the scene.

Oh, I see that it can be done. And more came: An AVP, then the paper works for an international project. I made more correspondences each day.

I kept coming back to that place… where there are fears, tears, and doubt. Fear because I don’t know what’s in store for me. I lack assurance. Fear is due to the unknown. Tears because often, hard work does not seem enough and every time you give it your best shot, more responsibilities come. Doubt because I wanted to say “yes” to everything and not to give up without trying. I keep hearing people say that I’m the favorite. But wait, have I reached my limit?

Earlier I was asked if I could take on another program that airs earlier than She Ka. I aired my concerns but my boss and I agreed to test the waters first and see what can be done later. I told her I was nervous and implied that the quality of work might suffer.

I love my job. But what transpires inside the office and among our people bring me down. Do you just stare blankly when co-workers resign for reasons you fully understand and experience first-hand? Are you able to keep that smile when every time you attempt to do your daily routine, something comes up and prevents you from accomplishing lined up tasks? How about meetings for upcoming projects? Please help me not to make this sound like griping or ranting.

I know I seem helpless. It’s a feeling that comes only when you’re so much in love. How will I know if it’s time “to move on,” as my dad suggests?

Asked if I’m also gonna resign, I jokingly told officemates that I still dream about being the manager of our department someday. We laughed our hearts out and imagined Ate Machelle being “Doc Mac.” It was past office hours.

Gusto Mo Ba ng Stable Job?

2009-09-05T00:05:00.000-07:00

Qualifications:
1. Willing to relocate to Naic, Cavite
2. Fit and outgoing (Baka kasi masipa,at dahil ipapasyal ang kabayo.)
3. Has a personality pleasing... to the horses

Perk: One year supply of Mane and Tail Shampoo

Babala: Hindi raw lahat ng stable job ay stable. Halimbawa, nang maitayo ang SM San Lazaro, marami ang nawalan ng stable job. Ikaw, handa ka na bang maging hinete?

My Passport Application Day

2009-08-18T20:01:00.000-07:00

Setting an appointment online is a big help! Especially when many people who stand by the DFA entrance can mislead you, saying “Dito ho ang pagkuha ng number!,” will look at you as if you should believe them or else… while proudly displaying their IDs which I dare not read.

With a printout of the e-mail that indicates your reference number, you just have to proceed to Gate 2, fall in a line that progresses in a short while, and submit your requirements:

1. Accomplished Passport Application form, downloaded from the DFA website
2. 3 passport size photos, taken against a royal blue background, applicant in collared top (I spotted a photo stall inside the DFA compound. They will provide your Americana!)
3. Original copy of Birth Certificate issued by the NSO
4. Photocopy of one valid ID

That’s all! And upon verification of documents, you will just proceed to the auditorium for the payment. It’s that easy. I just had a problem with number three because my birth certificate is just a copy certified by the city civil registrar. They don’t honor that. So I had to make a quick trip to the NSO along Diosdado Macapagal Avenue and had my BC released before 12 noon. Mahaba ang pila, pero mabilis naman ang pag-usad. Paid Php 140 and later on discovered that DFA gets the original. Considering the delay, the process still didn’t take me that long. I arrived at 9:00 am and finished at 1:30. Without the appointment they say, I should be there before six in the morning to avoid long queues.

Madali lang din ang pagko-commute. Just rode the MRT up to Taft Ave and boarded a jeep to DFA. Walking distance lang din hanggang NSO but I just rode the trike. O ‘di ba, ‘di naman talaga ganoon kahirap mag-apply ng passport.

Siguro iniisip na ng iba, mag-o-OFW (Overseas Filipino Writer) ba si MJ? Hindi naman. Gusto ko lang talaga ng pasaporte para sa mga ‘di inaasahang pangyayari. =) Nung nakita ng encoder ‘yung occupation ko, tanong niya, “Anong sinusulat mo?” Napangiti lang ako at napasagot ng: Scripts. Kaya wala munang scripts ang mga hosts ko ngayon kasi nandito ako. He he he.